WTF?
13 years ago
General
So I just got "yelled" at and lost the watch of a fur for posting my cute little "Bronco 'Bama" sketch. That's OK. He's absolutely entitled to his wrong and bull-headed opinions, of course. ^0^ He made it plain that he despises Obama and believes him to be an evil socialist/communist murderer. I disagree. the socialist/communist label is ridiculous propaganda that goes back to McCarthy and is not only bullshit, but isn't even being used properly. As for him being a murderer, I would point out that Bush directly caused the deaths of THOUSANDS of people by prosecuting a completely unjustified and illegal war. And I don't just mean Iraqi deaths--I mean American soldiers. So that should make Bush a mass-murderer. So Obama being just a plain murderer should seem like an improvement.
Seriously though, I do support Obama and I do feel he's doing his best against almost insurmountable odds (partisan obstructionism) to fix the MASSIVE and disastrous mess left by his predecessor. Is he perfect? No. Could he do more for the things I personally care about? Probably. But I really feel he is doing what he believes to be best for the country as a whole, and not just for a privileged few. That is my opinion. This is my page and if I want to express my opinions on it, I will. I don't mind if people have different views than I do. I DO however mind them ranting at me and withdrawing in a huff on MY page because of a fairly innocuous drawing.
I'm not really angry about it, but it was a bit obnoxious and I always feel a bit hurt about such things. Anyway, I guess I'm just venting here. It doesn't really matter. And I know there are several other furs who might ditch me just for expressing the opinions I wrote here. Or, they might understand that I am a big, dumb, gay, liberal and am not going to change and just look at my drawings while ignoring my ignorant leanings.
Anyway, goodbye Mercius, where ever you are...
Seriously though, I do support Obama and I do feel he's doing his best against almost insurmountable odds (partisan obstructionism) to fix the MASSIVE and disastrous mess left by his predecessor. Is he perfect? No. Could he do more for the things I personally care about? Probably. But I really feel he is doing what he believes to be best for the country as a whole, and not just for a privileged few. That is my opinion. This is my page and if I want to express my opinions on it, I will. I don't mind if people have different views than I do. I DO however mind them ranting at me and withdrawing in a huff on MY page because of a fairly innocuous drawing.
I'm not really angry about it, but it was a bit obnoxious and I always feel a bit hurt about such things. Anyway, I guess I'm just venting here. It doesn't really matter. And I know there are several other furs who might ditch me just for expressing the opinions I wrote here. Or, they might understand that I am a big, dumb, gay, liberal and am not going to change and just look at my drawings while ignoring my ignorant leanings.
Anyway, goodbye Mercius, where ever you are...
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Don't let it get to you, man. I know you're trying to laugh it off but stuff like that is frustrating. Just keep doing the best you can to treat people the best you can and if they see the light some day (and I don't mean supporting Obama, I just mean being able to not walk away from people just because of a difference of opinion) in a sincere fashion, just don't close that door unless you absolutely need to, that's all.
I think, that if Romney had been elected for president, the world would've already been so much worse for it by now.
Well it took a lot of bravery to step onto the stage and sing. You might be braver than you think! }:=)
a little levity is wonderful.
=^.,.^=
going out all of the way and compare him to Hitler and blame him for communism ? Then you have absolutely no idea what these things even mean my friend. I understand that politcal debates are always sort of heated but it's not like the President would be the sole person to dictate the course of the country, there is still congress. And as we know in a democracy both sides like to disturb and water down the other sides proposals.
Tl;dr: it's just a simple caricature, no nedd to throw a tantrum about it
Those are all socialist ideals, and those are all things—every one—that Conservatives have attempted, at one time or another, to destroy (and that doesn't even go into the horrific things that they have tried to implement in the OPPOSITE extreme, which most commonly bears the name "fascism"). Considering that the founding fathers also espoused many of those same ideals, it appears that the conservatives have warped themselves into something truly anathema to the spirit of the United States.
Incidentally, my wife wrote "Go, Bronco Bama!" on the calendar for Tuesday, and I think of your cartoon every time I walk past it.
The author posted a pre-election blog that was prefaced somewhat like this:
‘I am posting this and I do not want any vitriolic flaming to erupt because of it.’ She then went on to essentially say ‘Yay Obama! I think He walks on water while GOPers are all Nazis who eat s**t!’
What is it with Liberals? Why is it that they think that they can verbally (or in this instance graphically) hoist any form of inflammatory “flag” of their personal view on politics / religion / or sexual orientation and dismiss any disagreement of that view as being automatically wrong, “hate-speech”, fanaticism, and the simple act of turning one's back and walking away through un-watching equally wrong?
If you look up "false-flagging" and "DMCA takedowns" on YouTube, you'll find that it's predominantly done by right-wing activists (and it's the liberals who have sometimes gotten legal action taken against them, like Shawn (shockofgod)'s very public apology for the illegal and abusive crap he was pulling to silence the channels of people whose message he didn't like). There is a difference between "walking away" and publicly ANNOUNCING that you're shunning someone, and then CONTINUING TO ARGUE WITH THEM, which is not just immature, it's comical. You're free to not look at whatever you disagree with. Unwatch and block me for all I care. Heck, you're even free to vocally proclaim your dislike for a piece of artwork, especially on your own page (don't expect to have as much control of the conversation on someone else's page). But do NOT expect to do that without getting anything back in return!
It was a cute, positive message of support for a man who is obviously liked well enough by at least 150 million Americans. Deathpuppy did not post Romney in a bondage outfit playing Brokeback Mountain with Paul Ryan. THAT would have been inflammatory. What about this piece of art could be remotely considered "inflammatory" except by the most sadly twisted, extremist, narrow-minded, hate-filled zealots?
Are not the owners (? idnk) of Chick-Fil-A expressing their opinions through support of like-minded organizations? As for the aforesaid owners, has it been publicly stated that 'stripping Americans of their rights' was their intention in supporting such organizations or even having those opinions?
What is put on the Internet is not necessary constrained by any rules of Truth, Libel Laws or Factual Editing by any credible authority. More to this point, civility between those who venture onto the Net is very often lacking, resulting in trolling, flame-wars, harassment, flagrant obscenity, and even threats of physical violence.
The Internet is as free-wheeling and damaging today as the U.S. Old West where vastly out-numbered site moderators act like “sheriffs” trying to impose their own personal versions of Law and Order. The Internet is largely ruled by public emotion and consequently mob-rule.
I found DeathPuppy's drawing style and technique in the particular picture to be again excellent. I have been watching him because of that excellence ever since his days over on FurNation. However I find his lack of resilience to what should have been expected disapproval to the picture's political statement to be unexpected.
Is "sadly twisted, extremist, narrow-minded, hate-filled zealots" an example of name-calling?
Should I consider "Ryan Romney" bumper stickers to be "inflammatory?" Because boy, I'm surrounded by them, here in Texas. Should I be reacting with hostility and vitriol towards such expressions of support? Not that I planned to. Seems a complete waste of time and energy, and not a little bit nuts.
Sure, those are examples of name calling, but they're not baseless, rather like I would call Jared Laughner a demented psychopath. The fact that it's not "sensitive to his feelings" oesn't make it incorrect. Someone who sees an innocent, fun little cartoon and considers it "controversial" or "inflammatory" there's hardly any other adjective to choose but "warped." I considered Deathpuppy's initial response to be very restrained and polite. Mericus kept attacking, even when people were laughing at him. I think eventually even HE realized he had gone beyond the pale, since he deleted all his posts.
Since there are no FA rules forbidding negative comments or responses to postings.
As children we are cared for by our parents approving of everything we do, from the four totally unrecognizable squiggly lines approved as “art“, to our successfully using our potty chairs for their functions. However the older we get the less forgiving they and the Adult World are of our efforts -- and we should be aware of that eventuality and the reasons for it.
“…because the person has had such a manufactured hate machine directed at him specifically for the purpose of producing industrial quantities of hate.” One can assume that roughly one half of one’s Internet audience here in the US is Democratic and the other half Republican. So is colorfully damning any self-defense that might be offered beforehand by that slurred half a form of hate? A simple preface of not wanting any negative responses to her following comments posted should have been sufficient. Can people be hateful and not be aware of it?
How could you be “offended” by political bumper stickers? From what you have written, you disagree with their purpose, but certainly not the Freedom of Speech which allows them to be displayed.
“Someone who sees an innocent, fun little cartoon and considers it "controversial" or "inflammatory" there's hardly any other adjective to choose but "warped."“ Then would you say that the thousands of Muslims who rioted in the streets around the world over that “innocent, fun little cartoon” created by that Danish cartoonist a few years ago depicting the Prophet Mohammed wearing a turban shaped like a bomb warhead were all "warped"? How then would your catagorize yourself for being "offended" by the Romney-Ryan bumper stickers around you?
Sorry but I did not see the earlier interaction between DeathPuppy and Mericus. However even before that I have been a firm believer in civil disagreement without the usage of the pointing finger accusatory words or childish name-calling such as was used in that video.
"Is "sadly twisted, extremist, narrow-minded, hate-filled zealots" an example of name-calling?"
Yes, it is...if it isn't true. But please understand that I don't believe ALL Republicans or conservatives to be those things. But there are certain persons who are very much those things. I'm not saying there are no liberals who can't be called those same things. I'm just saying that I've seen a lot more conservative media types that qualify than liberal types. Maybe I'm still out of line...but there it is.
For example: I have a friend who is an evangelical Christian conservative. He thinks I am arrogant because I don't believe in his God and don't simply accept Christian ideals as absolute truth without question. I believe that HE is arrogant for the opposite reason. He thinks he has the final inarguable truth on his side without having to subject those beliefs to examination. We both believe the other to be wrong and to be arrogant about the reasons we believe what we believe. I've seen it over and over again with almost every argument between the opposing sides. Don't forget how many conservatives out there continually call Obama a Nazi. And I've seen truly horrific posts about Obama that are nothing more than vicious and disgusting racist bile. There's a lot of hate and bitterness on both sides and most of it is unjustified, or at least exaggerated. But sometimes they aren't. Some people just seem to live to generate hate and anger. I, personally believe Ann Coulter and Michael Savage to be two of the most evil human beings that live in America. And look at wackos like Fred Phelps and Glenn Beck. They call liberals evil and disgusting and yet they spew hate and cruelty from every pore they possess.
BTW--I am definitely not saying that un-watching me is wrong. Not at all, ever. If I feel a little hurt over it, that's really my problem. It wasn't the un-watching that bothered me so much as it was the deranged tirade that proceeded it. But if I was really upset about it all I would have just deleted the whole thing. I've deleted things before because someone went off on me and I felt it was undeserved. Again tho--it's my page and my right to do so.
*sigh*
I have no problem with people believing something and defending it when someone else calls it into question. However what I do have a problem with is when someone puts something forward in an “in-your-face” manner about their politics, their religion, their sexual choices, or even their artistically expressed ideas and then automatically stand ready to accuse anyone who disagrees with their personal stated beliefs as being wrong or “evil”. Dogmatic fanatics tend to do that quite a bit.
Theoretically a person who believes in something does so for a valid reason or reasons and can calmly and coolly put forward those reasons to examined by anyone and convinced by them. He/she should be able to defend or advance their belief in a civil manner through reason without resorting to emotional name-calling or character assassination.
When disagreement over a personal belief is met with emotional aggressiveness (such as name-calling) and intolerance (‘anyone who disagrees with me is wrong‘) then the civility necessary for correction and conversion to truth is cast aside from the very start and only intellectual conflict can result.
And yes, it is your page, and it is your artwork (which I thought was very clever BTW). However, any “I Believe This!” statement must be made with the clear understanding by the poster beforehand that others might not accept it when presented in that manner.
Nothing much can be gained from deleting civil disagreeing comments or by un-watching the poster. That is a poor defense of anyone’s beliefs.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wLoqti0lzAw
Second, I'm not clear on whether you are saying that I am the one who thinks anyone who disagrees with me is automatically "wrong" or "evil". That what the second paragraph sounds like. That I would take exception to. There ARE people who I disagree with that I believe to be wrong and evil, but not BECAUSE they disagree with me. Usually it's because they've said something vicious or reprehensible. Actually, I am generally fairly open-minded about people and their beliefs, even when I do disagree with them. Also I don't consider everyone who I think is wrong about something to be "evil".
As for the specific posts of Mercius, I know for a fact that much of what he was saying was crap. Perhaps I should have just ignored his posts completely. I don't like engaging in these kinds of discussions because frankly, I don't really feel up to the challenge of being able to deflate other peoples' ideas...nor do I necessarily want to. Only in cases where someone's ideas are actually threatening my freedoms. When they are sponsoring legislation against my rights as a gay man, or whatever. On the other hand, in this case I just felt like he was just trying to pick a fight or agitate me with his walls of distorted propaganda. I feel perfectly justified in asking someone who's doing that to stop.
Still, you clearly feel that I handled the situation poorly, and you are probably right about that. I don't really want to argue people out of deeply held beliefs. And frankly, I'm not sure it's possible to do so anyway. My journey from religious indoctrination to complete lack of faith in what I believe to be invented gods, was a long and difficult one and I had to figure it out for myself mostly. I expect it always needs to be that way. You can't MAKE someone think a certain way...you can only show them what you see and let them decide for themselves.
Yeesh. Now I'm doing it...walls of text. :P Anyway Lionus, I hope you don't bail on me too. I'm sorry if you found any of my comments to be objectionable.
One of my most memorable e-mail correspondences was with a self-described “homophobe”. To his credit he was willing to listen to my explanation of my views and I to his. We disagreed on some points, but allowed each other to explain our different views and our reasons for having them to one another.
Understanding is not the same as agreeing.
In the end, his views were moderated and I could understand why he thought the way he did. We accepted that each of us was different and being different wasn’t a bad thing. In fact, being different meant that there was something to be learned from one another.
Heh, after what started out as a flame-war ended with him extending an invitation to me to attend his (straight) marriage.
Ripping someone’s views and beliefs apart, as apparently that fur did to you, without allowing the possibility that what he believed that made your views and beliefs appear wrong to him was more an act of fear than certitude.
My view of Furry is that it is a sanctuary for people to escape to out of the abrasive everyday Real World. Have a bad day at work or in class? A few hours of looking at furry art (where every fur gets along) here in FA or chatting with furry friends can take away the stress with a couple of smiles.
Politics, religion and sexual choices are the three points of the triangle that define a person’s personality in the REAL WORLD, not in the World of Furry. Posting statements of one’s RL personal political/religious/sexual choices on a Furry site is as unpleasant as having one’s favorite TV program interrupted by a news bulletin regarding something you have absolutely no interest in at all.
There are all sorts of social sites such as Facebook where RL interests are posted and discussed very day. Posting reminders of the abrasiveness and divisiveness of the RL world, that people are perhaps trying to escape from, largely ruins that healing aspect of Furry for some if not many.
That some people can not simply turn away from such RL intrusions by clicking to the next page, but react with nasty comments or verbal attacks is all part of that unpleasantness from the Real World that Furry should be able to offer some escape from. The enraged people spoil it for everyone too.
As for me ever bailing on you -- I seriously doubt that will even happen, DP. I have collected 287 of your on-line works from May of 99’ (when you were WP) up until August of 2011. I admire (read that as “am jealous of“) your talent and your sense of humor and am looking forward to years more of muttering to myself “I wish I could draw like that” and chuckling over your humorous images.
*many hugs and much respect*
*Hugs*
Even if I don't agree with you, I still think you're nice to visit with.