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Excerpt from "the Otter" on domination
13 years ago
From the Collected works of “The Otter”
Most doms have the view that they must break there subs before they can get there enjoyment out of them, this is akin to doing surgery with a chainsaw rather than a scaplel, it can be effective but generally is frowned on by the establishment, Consider me a surgeon of domination..when I see folks with power tools I wince.. That's for carving meat..things need to be crafted.
when planting your flag on territory you don't want to do scorched earth on you you have to use your tools properly..and the old standby SEX is the utility knife in this regard.. The key is to train your meat to enjoy doing what you want, just like any animal.. Control its pleasure, control its pain... and though taking there furry tush might be painful to those who thought themselelves above such actions, a few words and an agile paw around there own crotch can do wonders... soft words, hinting at things that trigger there own needs.... promises of pleasure that only you can provide..then hold them there, just before release... till YOU want the relief to occur, once there begging you for pleasure...your on your waym having there body betraying there initial thoughts is a sweet thing..and the start
Now after you've got your little project on the mend from normal person to your plaything we get into the more..interesting aspects.. ones where you use the bigger weapons in your psychological arsenal to craft them how you want.. its like training a dog.... but with benefits..sure linking sex with the acts you want to see them do more of is fine, but mix in drugged drinks, the pleasure of a full belly and so on and you have many things to work with, Since you've already established there place in the relationship its time to play a little game...
I like to think of it in chess terms, somewhat a solitaire game with a living breathing chessboard, and victory conditions that you set yourself... The first well known method of playing the game is to prune away other attachments your subject might have, wrecked home, tarnished life, eating there loved ones, or having THEM eat them, all are quite satisfying and very fattening, leading your subject to realize YOU are all they have..right? Right. Well no.. your an idiot for thinking like that. It shows a lack of control, a feeble mind in your own head to only control one aspect... a wasterel. Far more engaging is remembering that each of these attachments is a pawn, or a piece on the field... Once a piece is taken and digested away its no longer there to tempt...OR be used.. Like chess, its not about killing the king..its about leaving him nowhere to move to....often trapped by his own pawns. Many folks own precious things keep them properly under paw...as right it should be
Subtle..and not so subtle threats to people or things people hold dear is an excellent way to control and corrupt someone to be what you want, make them take choices... give them the impresion that they have some control, even if they don't know the consequences you'll sow that wonderful little thing called guilt...
A cute way to handle this is to let them pick your supper.... Do they choose someone appetizing, dooming them to digestion, do they pick an enemy and get a giddy thrill at something so easy, and then what do they do when you say its not enough, taking the offering and asking more.. another choice.. will they realize they have to sacrifice something they love.... or even offer themselves... the choices a person makes will say a lot about them, giving you grips you need to maneuver them however you wish. You learn what he holds dear, what he value's and where to put the squeeze on as you smile.
It is important to not be to easy to read of course.. this one time I had a prospective supper who choose his lover day one, I spared the lover from digestion,,and ate the one unpicked..so the game continued a week or so more, he thought he knew how my mind worked..until the result of his choice wasn't someone else,but was his lover down the hatch... this teaches a valuable lesson about domination.. you want there to be doubt and risk, a certain life means they stop striving..a sin.
At its best you should want them to please you(And not by being just a brown nosers), so you reward them for doing what you like, lavish love and affection on them for chugging down there first meal if you want to make them a vore. Sure you can play an evil game about saying whats happening but you assault the body with pleasure and good feelings, a few meals down the line the guilt won't overwhelm them as much
It is rather an important nuance never to forget, If you take away EVERYTHING from someone, they have nothing left to loose, and thus you loose levers... to have an effective relationship ownership of some sort must be there, or implied... simple things can work, but its hard for someone to get emotionally distraught if I take a piss on there bed in fit of discipline.
Most doms have the view that they must break there subs before they can get there enjoyment out of them, this is akin to doing surgery with a chainsaw rather than a scaplel, it can be effective but generally is frowned on by the establishment, Consider me a surgeon of domination..when I see folks with power tools I wince.. That's for carving meat..things need to be crafted.
when planting your flag on territory you don't want to do scorched earth on you you have to use your tools properly..and the old standby SEX is the utility knife in this regard.. The key is to train your meat to enjoy doing what you want, just like any animal.. Control its pleasure, control its pain... and though taking there furry tush might be painful to those who thought themselelves above such actions, a few words and an agile paw around there own crotch can do wonders... soft words, hinting at things that trigger there own needs.... promises of pleasure that only you can provide..then hold them there, just before release... till YOU want the relief to occur, once there begging you for pleasure...your on your waym having there body betraying there initial thoughts is a sweet thing..and the start
Now after you've got your little project on the mend from normal person to your plaything we get into the more..interesting aspects.. ones where you use the bigger weapons in your psychological arsenal to craft them how you want.. its like training a dog.... but with benefits..sure linking sex with the acts you want to see them do more of is fine, but mix in drugged drinks, the pleasure of a full belly and so on and you have many things to work with, Since you've already established there place in the relationship its time to play a little game...
I like to think of it in chess terms, somewhat a solitaire game with a living breathing chessboard, and victory conditions that you set yourself... The first well known method of playing the game is to prune away other attachments your subject might have, wrecked home, tarnished life, eating there loved ones, or having THEM eat them, all are quite satisfying and very fattening, leading your subject to realize YOU are all they have..right? Right. Well no.. your an idiot for thinking like that. It shows a lack of control, a feeble mind in your own head to only control one aspect... a wasterel. Far more engaging is remembering that each of these attachments is a pawn, or a piece on the field... Once a piece is taken and digested away its no longer there to tempt...OR be used.. Like chess, its not about killing the king..its about leaving him nowhere to move to....often trapped by his own pawns. Many folks own precious things keep them properly under paw...as right it should be
Subtle..and not so subtle threats to people or things people hold dear is an excellent way to control and corrupt someone to be what you want, make them take choices... give them the impresion that they have some control, even if they don't know the consequences you'll sow that wonderful little thing called guilt...
A cute way to handle this is to let them pick your supper.... Do they choose someone appetizing, dooming them to digestion, do they pick an enemy and get a giddy thrill at something so easy, and then what do they do when you say its not enough, taking the offering and asking more.. another choice.. will they realize they have to sacrifice something they love.... or even offer themselves... the choices a person makes will say a lot about them, giving you grips you need to maneuver them however you wish. You learn what he holds dear, what he value's and where to put the squeeze on as you smile.
It is important to not be to easy to read of course.. this one time I had a prospective supper who choose his lover day one, I spared the lover from digestion,,and ate the one unpicked..so the game continued a week or so more, he thought he knew how my mind worked..until the result of his choice wasn't someone else,but was his lover down the hatch... this teaches a valuable lesson about domination.. you want there to be doubt and risk, a certain life means they stop striving..a sin.
At its best you should want them to please you(And not by being just a brown nosers), so you reward them for doing what you like, lavish love and affection on them for chugging down there first meal if you want to make them a vore. Sure you can play an evil game about saying whats happening but you assault the body with pleasure and good feelings, a few meals down the line the guilt won't overwhelm them as much
It is rather an important nuance never to forget, If you take away EVERYTHING from someone, they have nothing left to loose, and thus you loose levers... to have an effective relationship ownership of some sort must be there, or implied... simple things can work, but its hard for someone to get emotionally distraught if I take a piss on there bed in fit of discipline.
