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Issues and conflicts over certain things
13 years ago
Hey Everyone. Just an update about things. I made a journal a couple of months ago about people not respecting mine and Zerat's relationship. It went real well, then some people just forgot about it and thought it would be okay. Now a few things have arisen where me and Zerat nearly had a falling out over some of the RPs people have been having with me... Some were affectionate towards me and that made Zerat feel uncomfortable.
Although these were RPs (meaning not real) he still got annoyed that people don't respect our relationship and whatnot. If people still do these affectionate RPs with me after seeing this. Their comment will be ignored or the RP will be ignored.
This is mine and Zerat's choice. Respect our relationship please. Only him and him alone is allowed to show me affection. Hugs and licks are cool. But anything further than that and I'll ask you to read this.
I appreciate that others want to get to know me and such, thats fine but please keep the affection to a minimum. If anybody has any issues with this I apologise but I want to prevent this happening as its affecting mine and Zerat's relationship, if you think this is petty...well move on.
Although these were RPs (meaning not real) he still got annoyed that people don't respect our relationship and whatnot. If people still do these affectionate RPs with me after seeing this. Their comment will be ignored or the RP will be ignored.
This is mine and Zerat's choice. Respect our relationship please. Only him and him alone is allowed to show me affection. Hugs and licks are cool. But anything further than that and I'll ask you to read this.
I appreciate that others want to get to know me and such, thats fine but please keep the affection to a minimum. If anybody has any issues with this I apologise but I want to prevent this happening as its affecting mine and Zerat's relationship, if you think this is petty...well move on.
Master88
~master88
Appreciated sexy
Lucius-Angicoot
~lucius-angicoot
Uh... okay o.o
Midnight_Yamikidate
~midnightyamikidate
it's okay, I perfectly understand
Ingeir_Palar
~ingeirpalar
OP
Ok, I know its hard to understand but it was effecting mine and Zerat's relationship
Midnight_Yamikidate
~midnightyamikidate
well inflating and voring and stuff is stil fine right? just no "naughty" things?
Ingeir_Palar
~ingeirpalar
OP
Yes that fine with me, no naughty things though
Midnight_Yamikidate
~midnightyamikidate
yay! :3
TheLeatherDragon1
~theleatherdragon1
Well at least you handle it better than I do. When I see other women even looking at my Mark, I want to rip off their faces. When we went to a wedding, he had to be one of the groomsmen and escort another woman the whole time because of some stupid rules. I made her cry because I kept giving her the stare of death xD Heck, I even got enraged when some old lady tried to talk to him.
Ingeir_Palar
~ingeirpalar
OP
I try to, its just got to its limit, me and Zerat are arguing a lot about it really. Oh damn :/ I can imagine you have guilt aftwards :( no way to stop yourself either?
TheLeatherDragon1
~theleatherdragon1
That sucks, I really hope things work out. Haha, nope, I don't feel an ounce of guilt. Mark is MY thing and I will destroy anyone that gets between us. Even if he does play a lot of games and kinda ignores me, I'll still go pretty far to make sure the world knows he's mine and that's that. He is my husband after all xD
Ingeir_Palar
~ingeirpalar
OP
I hope it will too. Ah right haha I get you hehe xP I understand that, exactly! He's your husband hehe
Dracoshroob
~dracoshroob
;n; was any of this the rp we were doing in the comments of your art. cause now i feel bad about it, i meant it in no way other than being friendly cause i would never wanna do anything to hurt a relationship
Ingeir_Palar
~ingeirpalar
OP
Unfortunately it was I did enjoy the RP but I think it got a bit too intimate, I understand that you had no intention to do that, you were just being friendly. Don't take it to heart, it was going to happen eventually, it was just that the RP with you broke the camel's back as the saying goes.
Dracoshroob
~dracoshroob
im sorry, please tell zerat im sorry to, and i hope he can forgive me, i would never dream of breaking a relationship, its actually on my lists of "things that under no circumstances should i ever do"
Ingeir_Palar
~ingeirpalar
OP
I'm sure he'll appreciate that and see this, don't worry. I know your intentions weren't that, please don't beat yourself up about this, it was just unfortunate what happened
Dracoshroob
~dracoshroob
ok
Ingeir_Palar
~ingeirpalar
OP
It was still a nice RP think it just got a bit too intimate
Dracoshroob
~dracoshroob
it was just hugs and snuggles, i would never go any further than that since you have zeret
Chaossymbol
~chaossymbol
Hmm when I read this I hope that I haven't gone too close to you in any way Ingeir. When I was then I officially apologise by you and promise to give you just normal hugs
Ingeir_Palar
~ingeirpalar
OP
Oh no, you haven't nino, don't worry. I appreciate the concern and promise, it puts me in an awkward place with people but it needs to be done
Chaossymbol
~chaossymbol
Ok, thank you Ingeir
Zavvnao
~zavvnao
I am sorry. I am not good at expressing thing though, so I can't say much.
Ingeir_Palar
~ingeirpalar
OP
Ah don't worry, it happens but I know you'd say something if you knew how to put it :)
Zavvnao
~zavvnao
Like I am not good at reading situations X3
