I'm sorry, but you need to realize that it was a majority vote, not a 'let's exclude murlin' day. We were NOT going to wait until February for a day when everyone was able to make it. That wouldn't be a Christmas gift exchange, that would be Valentine's Day. Also, you're not the only one who can't make it. Shadow can't even make it because he'll be in Chicago all day today, so don't go off thinking we EXCLUDED you, as you say because the one who organizes the meets is gone. If you want to go off on me, BRING IT. Stop being narcissistic.

I'm just pointing out how childish and SELFISH people can be. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with waiting a couple weeks, or find a non meet day that everyone can get together. And if it is intentional or not, and day was still selected that people can't make it, thus EXCLUDING them. I just thought adults would have a bit more consideration for everyone, not just some of the group. You wanted me to bring it, so there it is!

Also look up the definition of Narcissism to learn how to properly use it. Me thinking of EVERYONE in the group is the extreme opposite of the meaning.

1. I know what narcissism means. From they way this journal was posted, it sounded like it was an all or none experience.
2. It was scheduled on a Wednesday because normally, that's the day that most of the group either can request off or know they have off. The holidays are naturally a busy time, so also that's why Wednesdays work best for day of the week.
3. Excluding didn't mean that we shunned anyone away from tonight. We never mentioned anyone being 'excluded; the date was decided on the largest participation of the group that could go.
4. Yes this comes off as being a bitch-rant, I get that, but I'd rather be brutally honest than hold it under my breath.