i want to know how people do not feel uncomfortable telling a complete stranger to use their talent & extensive knowledge in order to recreate their fantasies/fetishes/x-rated work for them.

how do you note somebody an x-rated description along the lines of "i want [character x] to be pounding [character y] with a giant dildo and i want [character x] to look scared but enjoying it and then i don't forget that [character y] has two penises"

how does somebody basically commission somebody else for something so personal...

and further more, where do artists draw the line? how does an artist take a commissioner seriously when they've been let in on something so personal? i guess i am really in the dark on something that's pretty conventional around here. x_x


if anybody feels like shedding light on this subject for me, that would be super cool haha. if you just want to watch me squirm and be confused, that's cool too i guess.