Important message about friendship
13 years ago
For all of you people who try to be someone else because you think it's cool, or you don't think people will like you or whatever:
I don't like liars. I don't like fakes and I don't like pretenders. Role playing is one thing, but when you live your whole life as someone else...
I'm not trying to be mean or anything, I'm just saying. I wouldn't want someone to like me for being something that I'm not, and I wouldn't want a friend who I think is a certain way when they aren't. How can you really have any friends if you never open up to them and really let them get to know you? How much of a friend are they if they wouldn't like who you really are? It's rude and hurtful to both parties.
This has been on my mind for a while and I just wanted to get it out. The bottom line is that if they are worth having as a friend, they will love you no matter what. If you're pretending to be someone they like so they will be your friends, then you're just plain selfish.
I hope this helps someone make better decisions, or maybe helps them make more real friends. I'm not trying to hurt anyone here, just sharing my thoughts and experiences. Peace.
~Renny~
I don't like liars. I don't like fakes and I don't like pretenders. Role playing is one thing, but when you live your whole life as someone else...
I'm not trying to be mean or anything, I'm just saying. I wouldn't want someone to like me for being something that I'm not, and I wouldn't want a friend who I think is a certain way when they aren't. How can you really have any friends if you never open up to them and really let them get to know you? How much of a friend are they if they wouldn't like who you really are? It's rude and hurtful to both parties.
This has been on my mind for a while and I just wanted to get it out. The bottom line is that if they are worth having as a friend, they will love you no matter what. If you're pretending to be someone they like so they will be your friends, then you're just plain selfish.
I hope this helps someone make better decisions, or maybe helps them make more real friends. I'm not trying to hurt anyone here, just sharing my thoughts and experiences. Peace.
~Renny~
Renho
~renho
I approve! *hugs*
Mzungu4u
~mzungu4u
well said ^.^
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