real friends dont judge you. if they do its best done behind your back and not in your face. real friends dont judge or gauge friendship on how much you do or dont do for them. how much you get them. how much your able to actually see them face to face. real friends care for you weather or not your up or down. are there for you. even if they arent you know you can depend on friendship to get you through hardships. its hard to find true friends anymore without them wanting something in return for their time.