If you are my friend then no matter what I am dealing with, no matter how sad, depressed, or whatever I am feeling. My arms are always going to be there to hold you, my shoulder to cry on and my heart to bleed for you, just hope you dont shun me if I finally do open up and seek comfort. My sister  sinibeau , though she doesnt always like that I worry about others so much, will attest to the fact that I dont know how to leave you in the lurch.