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13 years ago
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One more day in my life.
So, this has been going on for a few months now. And now it's getting silly. I got an email today. A long drawn out, heavily winded expression at disappointment in my very existence.
And what did I do to draw out this person's ire? What crime did I commit that was so heinous that it warranted an immediate reaction via email from this person?
Well... on that point I shall join the masses as the genuinely mystified.
Why am I confused, one may ask. Is it because this person's points were unclear? Or somehow vague? No. The reason I am confused is because the person who wrote this angry letter confirmed before they even got started that everything they heard was just rumor.
Rumor.
And yet they reacted as if it was somehow solid fact, despite the fact that they admit it was a rumor. I wonder strongly if they understand the difference between rumor and fact at all. But this letter isn't the reason I am writing this. It's actually nothing more than the straw. Not the one that broke the camel's back. But the one that just ticked me off when I was already in a bad mood.
To clarify, rumors and myself don't get along. There are TONS of them out there circulating around me and ironically enough people often tell me all about them, failing quite humorously to connect the fact that the rumors about the Wielder they are talking about happens to be the same person they are talking to. Over the years I've heard some AMAZING ones.
My favorite will always be the one where I am dead, Tyger Cowboy covered up my death and hid my body at the hotel the MEphit Fur Meet used to be at.
But lately... as in the past several months, the rumors have turned darker and sinister. They lack the amusing tone I've come to enjoy. The statements now circulating are entering the realm of slanderous and defamatory.
That being said, I put this out there not only for those who happen to glance at my journals...
BUT to ANYONE who ever wanted to know anything about me, ...
PLEASE ASK.
Don't trust the rumors. If you hear someone spreading the rumors, invite, suggest, or feel free to command them if that's your style, to just ask me. I have regular rumor control through here.
My last can be found here:http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/3877364/
I also have a whole Ask Wielder Comic project that can be found in my scraps folder.
I'm approachable. But please don't approach me working under the assumption that any of the rumors are true. Even if by some fluke you nail one that actually IS, it'd almost be safer to assume their all inaccurate first.
Which brings me to my last point. While this person had lots of rumors that upset them, the one that seems to have set them on edge was the notion that I was anti-babyfur.
Okay, Rumor control: I am not anti-babyfur. Anyone who's took time to look through my artwork will notice a theme. A theme of fetishes, kinks, and erotic exploration. Not much in this world squicks me. While I'm not into every fetish and kink out there, I am okay with many and most of them. And the ones I am not okay with are few, and I have good reasons for.
As for babyfurs... I have lots of babyfur friends. I know many of them. I not only do not hate babyfurs, but I am a daddyfur for a couple. I have two cubs from that community. One a babyfur, one a cubby. My life is full of the interesting and the unusual. I see no reason to try and cut out people out of my life. My experiences are the richer and the more sublime for having these people in my life, as friends or as more.
I don't hate anyone. No, really. I have a couple of people I probably should hate, and whom I'd probably be forgiven for hating if I listed all the wrongs they did against me, but I do not hate anyone. LEt's spread THAT rumor!
Wielder doesn't hate anyone....
And what did I do to draw out this person's ire? What crime did I commit that was so heinous that it warranted an immediate reaction via email from this person?
Well... on that point I shall join the masses as the genuinely mystified.
Why am I confused, one may ask. Is it because this person's points were unclear? Or somehow vague? No. The reason I am confused is because the person who wrote this angry letter confirmed before they even got started that everything they heard was just rumor.
Rumor.
And yet they reacted as if it was somehow solid fact, despite the fact that they admit it was a rumor. I wonder strongly if they understand the difference between rumor and fact at all. But this letter isn't the reason I am writing this. It's actually nothing more than the straw. Not the one that broke the camel's back. But the one that just ticked me off when I was already in a bad mood.
To clarify, rumors and myself don't get along. There are TONS of them out there circulating around me and ironically enough people often tell me all about them, failing quite humorously to connect the fact that the rumors about the Wielder they are talking about happens to be the same person they are talking to. Over the years I've heard some AMAZING ones.
My favorite will always be the one where I am dead, Tyger Cowboy covered up my death and hid my body at the hotel the MEphit Fur Meet used to be at.
But lately... as in the past several months, the rumors have turned darker and sinister. They lack the amusing tone I've come to enjoy. The statements now circulating are entering the realm of slanderous and defamatory.
That being said, I put this out there not only for those who happen to glance at my journals...
BUT to ANYONE who ever wanted to know anything about me, ...
PLEASE ASK.
Don't trust the rumors. If you hear someone spreading the rumors, invite, suggest, or feel free to command them if that's your style, to just ask me. I have regular rumor control through here.
My last can be found here:http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/3877364/
I also have a whole Ask Wielder Comic project that can be found in my scraps folder.
I'm approachable. But please don't approach me working under the assumption that any of the rumors are true. Even if by some fluke you nail one that actually IS, it'd almost be safer to assume their all inaccurate first.
Which brings me to my last point. While this person had lots of rumors that upset them, the one that seems to have set them on edge was the notion that I was anti-babyfur.
Okay, Rumor control: I am not anti-babyfur. Anyone who's took time to look through my artwork will notice a theme. A theme of fetishes, kinks, and erotic exploration. Not much in this world squicks me. While I'm not into every fetish and kink out there, I am okay with many and most of them. And the ones I am not okay with are few, and I have good reasons for.
As for babyfurs... I have lots of babyfur friends. I know many of them. I not only do not hate babyfurs, but I am a daddyfur for a couple. I have two cubs from that community. One a babyfur, one a cubby. My life is full of the interesting and the unusual. I see no reason to try and cut out people out of my life. My experiences are the richer and the more sublime for having these people in my life, as friends or as more.
I don't hate anyone. No, really. I have a couple of people I probably should hate, and whom I'd probably be forgiven for hating if I listed all the wrongs they did against me, but I do not hate anyone. LEt's spread THAT rumor!
Wielder doesn't hate anyone....
For those out there that think I have a problem with fetish furs, they clearly haven't been paying attention...
you damn anti babyfur, leather hating, anti fur D:
were do you get off? on the bus stop with bush jr. after attending nazi meetings?
yeah i thought so.
</sarcasm>
I'm honestly amazed how much drama comes your way when you're probably one of the most sane and generally peaceful people I know. *I* have more of a mean streak, and I don't even register on most folks' radars.
Seriously, to anyone who believes everything they apparently hear on the internet... Grow up, think for yourself, and ask. Sheesh, I don't think Wielder'd bite you unless you asked him (and his husbands) nicely!
But it does happen, but usually only in extream cases.
But getting pissy and angry at someone's behavior is one thing. I never held a grudge and walked away from it without any ire towards them. I don't hate. And I hope I never do.
Partly because it can't be rumor if it's true...
When you reach the status, wanted or unwanted, of people considering your to be a “celebrity”, then accept that rumors are part of the title.
I just can't for the life of me figure out why.
"My life sucks! Yours obviously doesn't. You're attractive, funny, smart, and talented. I hate you for that!"
You're just going to have to deal with this the rest of your life. Unless if you do a complete 180.