i need help...breaking up with my boyfriend
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am going to be breaking it off with my boyfriend of 2 years on saturday.
i'm just not happy with him anymore, and he's not happy with me.
he's been blaming everything on me, constantly screaming at me
he's been getting drunk and high, even though i'm allergic to weed, and popped pills tonite.
he hangs out with his ex girlfriends, one of which just had a baby and is doing all his homework for him (the homework i told him i could help him with)
he's extremely jealous of every guy i talk to
he went through my phone when i wasn't there and when my dad yelled at him to stop he kept going through it until he said "put the fucking phone down now, i don't care if she looked at your phone, that's my daughters phone" fyi i never went through his phone.
he blows me off to hang out with his friends all the time but blames me for never spending time with him
he says i don't make time for him, and i don't plan the dates out for him
he's jealous of the car my mother and i bought for me (using inhertiance money)
he says that i know what i want to do in life and he doesn't and i need to support him, but he shoots down every single idea i give.
all he wants to do is illegal shit.
he got mad because i didn't support him when he told me he wanted to do illegal drag racing on private property(trespassing) when he doesn't even have his liscence yet.
so tell me if i really am just being a bitch, or if i right to say that it's time to end it, and make myself happy.
i'm just not happy with him anymore, and he's not happy with me.
he's been blaming everything on me, constantly screaming at me
he's been getting drunk and high, even though i'm allergic to weed, and popped pills tonite.
he hangs out with his ex girlfriends, one of which just had a baby and is doing all his homework for him (the homework i told him i could help him with)
he's extremely jealous of every guy i talk to
he went through my phone when i wasn't there and when my dad yelled at him to stop he kept going through it until he said "put the fucking phone down now, i don't care if she looked at your phone, that's my daughters phone" fyi i never went through his phone.
he blows me off to hang out with his friends all the time but blames me for never spending time with him
he says i don't make time for him, and i don't plan the dates out for him
he's jealous of the car my mother and i bought for me (using inhertiance money)
he says that i know what i want to do in life and he doesn't and i need to support him, but he shoots down every single idea i give.
all he wants to do is illegal shit.
he got mad because i didn't support him when he told me he wanted to do illegal drag racing on private property(trespassing) when he doesn't even have his liscence yet.
so tell me if i really am just being a bitch, or if i right to say that it's time to end it, and make myself happy.

ShadowDragon_F0x
~shadowdragonf0x
Your completly right to break it off with him. No one should have to deal with all that negativity and such if they don't want too. If your worried about telling him,maybe do so around family or friends,yours of course.

PzykoDesigns
~pzykodesigns
OP
yeah i'm having my friend come with me because she'll support me and give me incentive to actually go through with it. its going to hurt. but it needs to be done

ShadowDragon_F0x
~shadowdragonf0x
*nods* It was a relationship you put a lot of time and energy into. Of course it's going to be a bit hard. But I think it'll be better to be away from him,as you've said yourself.

catwithpen
~catwithpen
It's definitely time to end it. I know it sucks right now, but it will get better he and his drama is out of your life.

SeraphBlackstripe
~seraphblackstripe
Good luck! Hopefully everything works out properly!

Krystal_AristoKats
~krystalaristokats
Time to make a break for it and run. Good luck in finding your true love in life. ^^