Fustrated rant
12 years ago
Secret's guide for the good commissioner V.2 ----> http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/2884549/
Secret's guide for the good artist----> http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/989763/
Secret's guide for the good artist----> http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/989763/
Once in a while you come across people that you can even think "How the hell can I even talk to them?"
They are so hard to understand, you have to cheek your words really carefuly, make sure no sentence can be understood in a different way, trying to make as much sense as you can, but still you fail.
I tried to help and talk this one person but no matter what I said, they always grasped a negative feeling of my words and considered it an attack.
"I have to let you know that some people are doing bad stuff to ya" "If you hadn't told me I would have ignored it and I wouldn't know they were doing it"
"You can delete certain thing and that will make them go away" "I decided to ignore it and now you are bringing it up again"
"I just wanted to help you" "You just wanted to bother me"
Well, then keep it that way and keep hating people that wanted to aid you. The funny stuff is that if I wanted to harm they I could REALLY harm them, in many different ways, yet here I am, unable to hate someone even if they hate me for their own reasons.
So here I am, unable to help someone and unable to hate them back and it will be that over and over again
They are so hard to understand, you have to cheek your words really carefuly, make sure no sentence can be understood in a different way, trying to make as much sense as you can, but still you fail.
I tried to help and talk this one person but no matter what I said, they always grasped a negative feeling of my words and considered it an attack.
"I have to let you know that some people are doing bad stuff to ya" "If you hadn't told me I would have ignored it and I wouldn't know they were doing it"
"You can delete certain thing and that will make them go away" "I decided to ignore it and now you are bringing it up again"
"I just wanted to help you" "You just wanted to bother me"
Well, then keep it that way and keep hating people that wanted to aid you. The funny stuff is that if I wanted to harm they I could REALLY harm them, in many different ways, yet here I am, unable to hate someone even if they hate me for their own reasons.
So here I am, unable to help someone and unable to hate them back and it will be that over and over again
FA+

In the end she threatened suicide again, and the same thing happened again, and it's just as toxic as it gets. However I think people are starting to close up to her so maybe it will get better, and some of our class who only found out after trying to help her the last few weeks are also starting to realize how much she was using them to gratify herself.
People like this don't listen to reason or logic, they are pure emotion and there is no way to help. Realistically they should see a psychiatrist but that only works if they know something is wrong with them individually, and that takes a tiny bit of common sense unfortunately.
enjoy.
>:E
ALL DEM LADY ASSES
UP ON YOUR FACE
A lot of them seem to think or believe they do not need or desire help from anyone. Especially, some of the newer artists.
I do not know, but a lot of the more gifted artists I may have asked for some small piece of advice on something, gets turned into "You just wanna copy my style is that it?!" and that is not what I was wanting to do. I just asked for help :o so yeah it depends on the situation and type of person you're dealing with in reality sweety.