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The Gay Stereotypes
12 years ago
Hello there people. Fun fact! I'm gay :3c I know i know who would have guessed! I guess since I listen to metal and dress like a dweebass punk that there just IS NO WAY I CAN BE INTO MY OWN GENDER! RIGHT?
Look kids, there is NO real basis to go on to determine sexuality. People are who they are! I know plenty of straight men who professionally does makeup for models, do cheerleading, strip, etc. Same goes for lesbians! Not every lesbian does motocross and gets a Joan Jett haircut, and not every woman who does IS a lesbian.
Sometimes you kids just DONT GET IT! Stereotypes are OFTEN BULLSHIT!
Now there are things that I'm into that constitute as "Homosexual lifestyle" For example; Drag is FUCKING AWESOME. Not every gay person is a stuck up snob jerkwad bitch with a splintery stick (nope not a dick) up their asses. So if I were to ever do something like drag I wouldn't want people to go "Oh there's that gay dude, he's probably a DICK"
PSHH WHY? cuz I'm different? Whateverrr im fuckin awesome, just ask Quentin Tarantino and Jesus, they'd say the same.
I will say this though... it ain't easy being both gay, and well... just weird/eccentric. Makes it very hard to make any kind of real connection with anyone on a deeper level since either A) just have nothing in common, or B) my eccentricities and interests alienate someone before they ever give me a chance.
Sorry... just kinda venting a bit. Home from work sick as fuck, and lonely.
I'm so glad you understand this situation. It sucked being the gay kid in the family and at school. It also sucks beign the creepy weird and spooky kid in your family and at school. BEING BOTH JUST FUCKING BLOWS! Because you get weird looks from the gay kids and then you freak out the freaks so who the fuck are we supposed to talk to when the outcasts treat us like outcasts?
(WOAH THAT VENT WENT A LITTLE OUTTA CONTROL SORRY HAHAHA)
so yeah, an outcast among the outcasts, story of my life, heheh
Thats another thing, Bears are kind of like my thing and whenever I would say that to people I'm attrcted to and I got weird looks. Like "Lol but you're a little twinkfag" like fuckin so what!? I'm not some kind of delicate flower and everyone thinks it's so weird that a guy like me is into guys like that. Like who gives a fuck?
Just nice to know that people aren't easily characterized, that you can't easily label people for how they act or look.
I totally feel you on this dude!