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I'm so sorry to hear . I'm sure things will get better. Life has a funny way of working out

You're a nice, gentle guy in RL. Women tend to like assholes, the bad guy. So I've been told. Repeatedly.

This could be a bad pun, but I find that theory to be complete and utter bullshit. I've tried being the cocky, assholish "I'm better than your boyfriend and all your ex's combined" approach. So far, it has gotten me nothing. I've also tried being the nice guy and offering an ear to listen and a shoulder to cry on...again, nothing.

I'm pretty much in the same boat here as the skunk and I'm thinking that there's something seriously wrong with me...

I've been told women like guys with (some) money, a car, and their own place.

Personally, I don't believe you should try and look for a relationship if it's one you want to last. If it's meant to be, it will be, and trying to 'get' girls (or guys) will just lessen your chances of finding your perfect partner.

I'd think the opposite would be true. Get out there and be proactive, find people, network. That I think would increase one's chances.

That's true. I'm not saying sit inside and stare at a wall all day. I meant don't go looking for someone. Just go and do what you enjoy, be yourself and don't focus on just picking up a partner.

Psh, I wouldn't

Well I know your a good skunk, and ill be at califur again to this year ^^

Same here, room party ;3

Ooo do tell ^^

I cant speak for all women but I am more likely to avoid and ignore an asshole. I like to be able to have meaningful conversation and relate able experiences with my male friends/significant others. My best advice to you is to be your self and get out to meet people but don't go looking specifically for a mate just look for friends that you get along with that happen to be female and let things progress naturally from there. there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy and if a girl is looking for a badass jerk then let her find one, obviously she is not good for you. ^_^

Yeah, I just run into the bad ones I suppose. Biggest problem is im much better in person as opposed to online.

Well, part of the problem too is that lately being loud and obnoxious is mistaken for being strong, or right...so the number of "bad ones" I think has increased. I to prefer in person communication rather than online but it seems in my case that the people who are interested in a non internet based friendship live far away and the people close prefer online interaction.

Thats how it is usually, or you find someone really awesome and they are on the other side of the globe to. But even looking for friends that share similar interests, same deal.

<<; I wish I had more money to go to cons. Cons are fun and you can meet great people. Im pretty isolated geographically speaking I can count all the furs within 30 mins on one hand and still have fingers left ~_~

Aww :( Thats no fun at all