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Thought for the day: Drama
17 years ago
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Insomnia has taken over once more, as it is approaching 7A.M. here. Will probaly retire soon so I can make some things happen tonight. But, I'll see after I post this...
I have been recently thinking, due to the lack of contact from some friends who moved on. I know they have full access to, and I thought we left on good terms. Guess not, but life goes on. We make new friends, but it's still nice to get an IM or call every once in awhile to check on mutual friends, right?
My thought for tonight...
How far do lies and drama travel? How long do they remain?
Call it paranoia, but I wonder if something like this really did happen. It kind of sucks, knowing that I do my damn best to keep the lies and drama to a minimum in my own life, as well as others' lives. But we won't keep this about me...
The reason I ask is that a lot of people tend to eat, drink, and breathe this. The lies/drama never stops. It just keeps going like people depend on it. Now, I'm not just keeping this inside the fandom. We all know that it exists everywhere... from pre-teens to furries to adults to scene kids and to even friends. And I'm not talking about the lulz drama either, I'm talking serious reputation-ruining, hard to make it without wanting to just kill everyone drama.
... and people wonder why they can't stop stressing and just relax...
Why not forgive and forget? Lay off of it? I mean, stress physically affects the body in a negative way... and we won't even mention the harmful ways that affect mental health.
I'm not really going through any at the moment. I just brush that shit off of my shoulder and keep on living. I learned the hard way of the negativity, and I got tired of it.
What do you guys think?
I have been recently thinking, due to the lack of contact from some friends who moved on. I know they have full access to, and I thought we left on good terms. Guess not, but life goes on. We make new friends, but it's still nice to get an IM or call every once in awhile to check on mutual friends, right?
My thought for tonight...
How far do lies and drama travel? How long do they remain?
Call it paranoia, but I wonder if something like this really did happen. It kind of sucks, knowing that I do my damn best to keep the lies and drama to a minimum in my own life, as well as others' lives. But we won't keep this about me...
The reason I ask is that a lot of people tend to eat, drink, and breathe this. The lies/drama never stops. It just keeps going like people depend on it. Now, I'm not just keeping this inside the fandom. We all know that it exists everywhere... from pre-teens to furries to adults to scene kids and to even friends. And I'm not talking about the lulz drama either, I'm talking serious reputation-ruining, hard to make it without wanting to just kill everyone drama.
... and people wonder why they can't stop stressing and just relax...
Why not forgive and forget? Lay off of it? I mean, stress physically affects the body in a negative way... and we won't even mention the harmful ways that affect mental health.
I'm not really going through any at the moment. I just brush that shit off of my shoulder and keep on living. I learned the hard way of the negativity, and I got tired of it.
What do you guys think?
Shit seems to happen, dude. I think we've all felt lie this multiple times.
The best way I can find to deal with this is just take in one day/hour/minute at a time. Take a nap, or do an enjoyable hobby, and hope that time will eventually destroy the problem.