Ive been down that road before. Usually a sign that things are going to get better. And if you two dont get back together, thats fine. Important thing for you both to remember: Do not change yourself and expect to get back together. Change yourselves so that you are better, happier people.

well thats what were trying to do. though im worried how long it may take.

you are all too young right now anyways. you gotta lotta growin and changin yet to go through. you really don't find yourself more stably you untill you get to be around my age. you're bodys still maturing and your hormones outta whack. So i'ma be honnest here, i think you need some time to grow yet still before looking for a super serious relationship anyways. I know these things still hurt. but your cute, and you gotta lot better to look forward too in the future. and who knows after you guys even out you might find you mesh really well.

but always best to find yourself and make sure your partner knows where he's goin before getting hugely involved with em.

thanx... i think?

I know it's not the most positive statements. but it's truth. i think you can use some more truth.

acctually id prefure less right now. it seams everyone as of late ither thinks hes being unreasonable, or they think i should dump him, or that it wont work out, or that i should put up with it, or that if i really loved him id make him stay, or if he really loved me he wouldnt be doing this. and so fare out of the 14 people ive talked this out with, 2 think its a good thing and only 3 think we should stay together. so right now id rather the false hope.

well like i said. you gotta find yourselves first. it sounds like he needs to do quite a bit more growin himself. I'm the sort that would think the better option is to sit back and see where things go. come what may, you know?

I'm terribly sorry that happened. Hope things get better. *hug*

sorry to hear that man