It drives me crazy I can't do any thing b/c I'm pregnant and every one who said they would help me with stuff seemed to be hiding. My brother got a new job and does not have the time so I can't ask him, my sister is like to help at all and my hubby works nights and gets grumpy and threatens to sell my animals when I ask him for help with the barn work. I had a few friends offer but when I posted on FB about needing help this week to get my barn cleaned, shed organized and a few posts pounded in I got no answer. Now I post some thing dumb every one has some thing to say. My barn is tiny and it won't take long to clean I just can't push the will burrow b/c its to heavy with me being pregnant. Shows who your real friends are...the people who are real friends have actual reasons they can't help like they live to far away, work, kids or health.