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An Observation On Bears (ADULT TALK)
12 years ago
Okay well it's no secret that I dig bearsy fuzzy bigger guys. Whatever I admit it.
But I've noticed that bears sorta just congregate with each other for the most part. For someone like me to like bears it's sorta lame because I'm never up their alley. I mean I get messages on OKCupid like "DONT EVEN BOTHER TWINK FAG, YOU'RE NOT IN MY LEAGUE" for MERELY looking at a profile. Or sometimes when I let someone know I find them attractive (I dont mean blatanly HEY I WANNA FUCK YA! But like politely and with sophistication) They usually go "oh wait.. no that's wrong, you're supposed to be with pretty guys.
I mean FUCK I DONT LIKE PRETTY GUYS! Sorry about it.
I mean not that I'm complaining because I do have a pretty awesome boyfriend who does fit portions of what I find attractive. But a little open mindedness and consideration goes a long way.
PS please don't label me as a twink just because I'm not masculine.
But I've noticed that bears sorta just congregate with each other for the most part. For someone like me to like bears it's sorta lame because I'm never up their alley. I mean I get messages on OKCupid like "DONT EVEN BOTHER TWINK FAG, YOU'RE NOT IN MY LEAGUE" for MERELY looking at a profile. Or sometimes when I let someone know I find them attractive (I dont mean blatanly HEY I WANNA FUCK YA! But like politely and with sophistication) They usually go "oh wait.. no that's wrong, you're supposed to be with pretty guys.
I mean FUCK I DONT LIKE PRETTY GUYS! Sorry about it.
I mean not that I'm complaining because I do have a pretty awesome boyfriend who does fit portions of what I find attractive. But a little open mindedness and consideration goes a long way.
PS please don't label me as a twink just because I'm not masculine.
I've never met a bear who was all like that though, generally they'll talk to me, and generally I'll turn them down cause... well for one I don't want hair in my mouth..
Not all bears are like that though, but a good portion of the ones I've talked to are. Sometimes they just won't even acknowledge me lol. Do I smell bad? I dunno lol
I feel you, it's not for everyone haha.
It's just an observation through some experiences I've had. I mean I'm not saying BEARS SHOULDNT BE ATTRACTED TO BEARS. I wouldn't ever say that. I'm just saying if that IS the case, don't be a dick to people who aren't your type. JUST politely decline.
And awww that is cute!
unless of course the bear is into that sort of thing.
its a pretty salty attitude to have really.
I'd just rather them politely decline instead of "LOL FUCK OFF FAIRY"
I just don't like the cliquey-ness
I'm not even twink material; I'm a goddamn MtF to them pretty much, femboy if I'm lucky.
My biggest problem with bears is this; for a bunch of manly men they're pretty clique-y and shit, and incredibly shallow. I've been actually pretty blessed for find a really sweet bear who actually prefers my type, but they are one in a fucking million.
If you want to talk about this or any other shit more hit me up, I got your back dude.
Bears or just macsuline types in general attracted to the opposite is rare but aww that's so cute! I love it.
Thanks macaBROni y queso, I gotchu
I would look at it like...if someone has an attitude just cuz you don't look like them, that's probably a good filter as to the type of person they are anyway lol. They're either completely socially retarded or putting entirely too much emphasis on sexuality
But apparently High School NEVER ends in this culture and nerds sit with nerds, jocks with jocks, and label with label.