Before I say anything, has this situation been cleared up?

Yeah,it has.That night I hungout with the 16yr that night and he was eager to get somewhere private with me,but I kept causally stalling,without making it look like I was stalling.Stopped in a few stores,one of which is my favorite kind of store,with weapons and other asian things. After,we went to McDonalds for a small bite,then dropped him off at home.After him being so eager,he hasnt talked to me much at all after..... Why is it ok talk talk to me about sexual stuff,but ignore me talking casual?

Umm...he may only be interested sexually. I once had a friend, who really used me for sex(rp wise). Most of the time he just wanted to do sexual things, to even webcam(himself mostly), to just think about visiting to have sex(this was years ago, however). When I tried to join in conversations he was in, he would hardly talk to me, and when I tried to talk about normal things, he'd pretty much ignore me. He really just used me for sex, and neglected me as a person otherwise. Then there was an incident where he blocked a bunch of people on FA, including me, and afterwards I could only talk to him on Skype, to where he would never reply. After months of trying, I got to talk to him one day, he apologized and unblocked me, and started getting intimate with me, but I stopped him because he said he was in a relationship prior, and I told him I was in one too. He pretty much stopped talking after that. After more months, nailed a convo with him again, after saying he went through a few relationships, he was asking about my status this time, to which I was working at getting back with my girlfriend at the time. Stopped talking again, and he hasn't talked to me yet. :\

Like I said before, he may just wanna use you for sex, since he knows you are sexual(as you hinted well). Since he isn't talking to you much anymore, because he pretty much wanted sex, here's my thought for two choices: One, set him straight, SAY NO FOR CRYING OUT LOUD, and tell him you have a mate, he is a minor and it's illegal, and say you won't mind being friends, but NO sex. Two, stay away from him from now on since you know he wants sex, which could be an alternative if you want to avoid saying no, despite the fact you should. However, if you two hang out again, and he actually tries anything, it's self defense to stop him from doing anything sexual to you, since then it would be sexual harassment, even if he is a minor. You have your rights as a person to deny and say no, even if the person in question is a minor while you're not, so don't feel afraid to say no. Seriously, you need to learn to say no, regardless of your past troubles of saying the word. You'll just get walked over if you say yes to everything, especially when you can and want to say no. Also, you're never being mean by saying NO TO SEX! |D Screw the Internet saying otherwise, you'll be worse off if you said yes to him, by screwing your love life and being a free man because you would be going to jail and being labeled as a pedophile. |D What's worse, saying no, or losing your love and freedom?

Thats exactly my line of thinking,just was too nervous to say 'no',so I used another tactic instead,stalling until the situation became moot.Btw,he isnt the first to keep coming back to me just for yiff,online though.Plenty have and its more than annoying,but I hide how I really fell and just go along with it.... Anyways,he hasnt talked to me in over a week now,but I still dont delete contacts.Im open to be friends with just about anyone because im versatile,but a friend should be more than wanting to yiff all the time,as you well know too. If he wants to talk,I'll talk,but I have to stop being to "available" to everyone......which in some cases,it me who started it........>/////> There are still others that keep popping up here and there,but I keep my distance,even though its the only ones that acualy contact me,instead of me always trying to contact everyone else..... The reason I was so nervous about THIS particular situation though,was because its in RL,thats what may it so much dire to handle. Im glad for your response though,and thank you.it lets me know im not the only dealing with something like this.Good Luck in your relationship though,may you have many many MANY more years together.