eh.. I had one, lost interest and ending up in him hurting bad *shrug* I already had a new close one though XD

had 3 relationships, 2 distance, one "irl" the 2 first died withing 4months, the 3rd one that is close have soon lasted 4 years :D

:D I've only had one relationship and that is my current one and will hopefullly also be my last one ^^
I really dun get how ppl can manage to live so far away from eachother at all. I've had ppl goin in and out of reølationships on face all dem time.
It goes 3 weeks and then the luvv is gone.

Also, can I get a hug at desu 8 plz <3 <3 <3 ? :3

I'm not an overly mushy person, i really dislike romance and all that xD Me and my bf don't celebrate anniversaries, and rarely birthdays, but we love just existing in the same room, it's really safe and being able to cuddle is awesome, so that is why it never worked for me XD Other friends of mine are great at wordy love though. A friend of mine have been in a long distance relationship for 5years almost, met the girl twice (she lives in the states), they seem to be ready to move when they are finished ins chool getting married and all the shizz.. I can't even comprehend it x3


and Yush! If I decide to go VIP we'll make sweet sweet love in the VIP line. xD
Jk, but I have no clue which suit to wear *first world problems* I have the black/white/teal collie, the grey/red partial, and also going to bring my Raichu cosplay for wearing something that is more breezy and easier to browse the stands in :D Uploading pictures of the suits before the con though :D almost no time left to fix them up

I don't believe in distance relationships at all. Every time I see someone make themselves have that kind of relationship without even meeting the partner first, I just hold on to all the why I can grab and cringe with dem feels.

And yeah, they don't seem to work for too long, so you've got to meet up pretty regularly to keep it running. And then you're both in the "we gotta do so much because we rarely see each other" -mode.

and all the drama!. I have a girl in my class that like topped functioning after getting herelf a bf in Alta. And like WTF. She stopped comming sto school and came lat etc. derr.
Also another one is always complaining on how the millitary is keping her bf awaay.

Gawd. U chose this urself gddamit!

I can admit it amuses me though. My sadistic / evil side. It sorta makes me grin when I see ppl go like that in and out and get heartbroken for like the 4th time in 3 months. I dun feel sorry for em at all.
I dun feel sorry for ppl who cplain about their loves living far away.
And I sure as hell dun get how ppl can fall in love online. That's just WTF.
I can accept it yes, get it,, No

Exactly. Right on.

What kind of view do they have on love if they can just chat with a person they've never met before, then suddenly fall in love with the person?
I just can't get it. Sure, nice for them, and if it works out, then congratulations, they deserve a fucking medal, and I will give them all my respect since they've managed something like that.

I'm not going to criticize anyone for it, though. I'm happy for them, and they've managed something I probably never could, even if I tried.

I think with modern online video technology like Skype, long-distance relationships are very possible. You can see and hear people these days as if they were right there, and it doesn't even cost you anything the way that long-distance phone calls used to.

Obviously "long-distance" relationships used to work somewhat - after all, sometimes guys would get married and then have to go to sea for 6 months or a year. And sure, maybe they cheated, and their wives cheated, but they still had a "relationship". They might have exchanged letters, or not. (I know this is a bit of an archaic example and a little silly, but the point is, long-distance relationships are nothing "new"!)

Now, you can stay in constant contact with people. You can get to know them very well. Sure, they can lie to you via email or instant messenger, but people can lie to you face-to-face too ;} Long-distance relationships share the same risks as in-person relationships. There are risks that are unique to long-distance online-only relationships ("hey, you told me you were a man!"), but in-person relationships have risks too.

I think you CAN get to know people online. I have made some very good friends online who I believe I know the "real" person (meaning they haven't lied to me about who they are) and I would treat those people just as I would treat an in-person friend. I would help that online friend out if they were in trouble, and if something really serious happened, I might even try to arrange a visit to them to help out, etc., just because they are as much of a real friend to me as is a friend who lives in the same city as me.


You can certainly fall in love with people online. I don't think it happens overnight, and I feel sad when I see people who seem to "fall in love" and then get hurt over and over again in a heartbeat online.

I also think that, eventually, in a long-distance relationship, one of the people HAS to be willing to move to wherever the other person is, or they both need to be willing to relocate to somewhere new. I don't think people can go on for 20-30-40+ years "together", visiting each other a couple of times a year only, and still live apart and claim that they're in a relationship. :/ At some point, one or both need to make some kind of location-based sacrifice.

But do I think certain people can make long-distance relationships work? Yes, I do ;} LOVE CONQUERS ALL >_>;

Lots of RP!

It works for a limited time (depending on the couple), though it seems that those whom do survive end up moving together at one time or another.

I'm going to talk you in private. I'll send you a note about my past.....

hmmm this girl she lives in Australia her name is Taylor. She loves me very much sadly I didn't wanted to hurt her feelings I rather be just friends. Lucky she understand me and then I met Xepeher in real life.... he was a bitch boyfriend. I'm okay ^^ thats about it.

Ah. I'm just asking this cause X amount of ppl on my face goes like in a relationship for 3 weeks and then it's over ..... =_=

Well, I admit I'm one of those guys who went into a relationship without even meeting the other part IRL beforehand.
All I can say is, people have different views on what relationships are, for me it doesn't have to me intimate nor do I have to see the person all the time.

What matters is to have your person in your heart, but then again this differs from person to person but for me and so far for my love it works out without any hassle at all.

As mentioned in an earlier comment, various communication tools like Skype makes long distance fully possible, combine this with a small and mobile tablet which has a good front facing cam and you end up with the ultimate communication tool.

My conclusion is:
Long distance will work if both parts are okay with it.
However I'm not sure how "long-long" distance relationships would work out, could never imagine having a partner living outside my own country.