there are times when people need to talk. when others need to listen. there are times when there is nothing more important in the world then just a kind ear to take in your frustrations. some people that can know you better then your issues your dealing with. some that actually do care instead of a nod of the head and like "i dont really care what your dealing with. its none of my business" just a simple ear can keep you sane. there are some people who cannot be replaced in such things. those who you gain a connection that you can just explain anything to instead of feeling like you are alone even if they are there for you. many times in many days. its getting harder and harder not to just scream out and punch something. just built up frustration and no way to let it out otherwise...