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Love is a rarity with yiff/porn/hentai
12 years ago
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This is something I tend to discuss a lot with my friends. When you see pictures or comics of character having sex or doing anything sexual, it tends to... well, not be "love" love. It's almost always about raping and forcing and being harsh and mean.
I mean, sure... when you work on a comic and the sex gets more intense, it can be rough and harsh words and actions can occur till the "moment". But after that and BEFORE that especially, it should be loving and caring and tender and... well, sweet. Or, is this really subjective? I personally don't think so.
I mean, just think about it. If there's no actual love involved but it's about using someone for sexual needs... how will it feel afterward you're done masturbating if you do? You will feel empty and lonely and regretful. Not only is there a bigger chance of those feelings going away if there's romance and love involved into what you so happen to jerk off to, but you will also most likely have a much better orgasm for it.
I got into an argument with someone about lethal vore once. And while I think there's no such thing as a fetish/kink/turn-on that is wrong since you can not help what turns you on... I just think it's downright horrible to create stories/comics and such where someone ceases to exist. It's heartbreaking to me. That's the complete opposite of love - to kill someone to please your own sexual needs, like with mouth vore or anal or cock vore or unbirth, etcetera. Heck, even none-vore can be lethal.
A friend of mine has talked about checking inflation stories that made him sad, because it ultimately goes into explosion territory with it, therefor killing the character. And... yes, I DO think that's horrible too. Sorry to break it to you others who gets into it, but... lethal never really feels that great in the bigger picture for anyone, if you ask me.
Yes, I'll admit. I AM a romantic type of person. I care about love a lot. Maybe some other people are into "raping", but... the thing is - if it's literally only about pleasing your own sexual needs and not about love at all, then what's the point? Sure, "rape" in the sense of playing around with your loved one can be sweet. I mean, it's not "rape" in that sense in that case - it's more like the dominant one bangs you whenever he (or she) pleases. That can be kinky, I really do understand that, and... well, can love the idea of it. ^////^;
But I don't know... I just felt like sharing my opinion on this whole matter, because I think about it a LOT. I wish I could find more well-drawn comics with sweet romance that ultimately after a while gets rough and all that. It's really hard to find though. But I mean, am I really the only one along with the few friends of mine who prefers to not feel like trash after I'm done fapping/pawing/whatever term you prefer? XP
I miss love, is all. Especially since it can be a great way for me to feel better about being single... ; 3 ;
I mean, sure... when you work on a comic and the sex gets more intense, it can be rough and harsh words and actions can occur till the "moment". But after that and BEFORE that especially, it should be loving and caring and tender and... well, sweet. Or, is this really subjective? I personally don't think so.
I mean, just think about it. If there's no actual love involved but it's about using someone for sexual needs... how will it feel afterward you're done masturbating if you do? You will feel empty and lonely and regretful. Not only is there a bigger chance of those feelings going away if there's romance and love involved into what you so happen to jerk off to, but you will also most likely have a much better orgasm for it.
I got into an argument with someone about lethal vore once. And while I think there's no such thing as a fetish/kink/turn-on that is wrong since you can not help what turns you on... I just think it's downright horrible to create stories/comics and such where someone ceases to exist. It's heartbreaking to me. That's the complete opposite of love - to kill someone to please your own sexual needs, like with mouth vore or anal or cock vore or unbirth, etcetera. Heck, even none-vore can be lethal.
A friend of mine has talked about checking inflation stories that made him sad, because it ultimately goes into explosion territory with it, therefor killing the character. And... yes, I DO think that's horrible too. Sorry to break it to you others who gets into it, but... lethal never really feels that great in the bigger picture for anyone, if you ask me.
Yes, I'll admit. I AM a romantic type of person. I care about love a lot. Maybe some other people are into "raping", but... the thing is - if it's literally only about pleasing your own sexual needs and not about love at all, then what's the point? Sure, "rape" in the sense of playing around with your loved one can be sweet. I mean, it's not "rape" in that sense in that case - it's more like the dominant one bangs you whenever he (or she) pleases. That can be kinky, I really do understand that, and... well, can love the idea of it. ^////^;
But I don't know... I just felt like sharing my opinion on this whole matter, because I think about it a LOT. I wish I could find more well-drawn comics with sweet romance that ultimately after a while gets rough and all that. It's really hard to find though. But I mean, am I really the only one along with the few friends of mine who prefers to not feel like trash after I'm done fapping/pawing/whatever term you prefer? XP
I miss love, is all. Especially since it can be a great way for me to feel better about being single... ; 3 ;
And honestly, I've always disliked the kinks of Vore, Infaltions, Macro and so on. it's selfish and thats all it is. A selfish act to please oneself. And untill I read this I counden't figure out why I disliked it so. Now I do, Never thought about it that way.
But yes, there is not too much love around. Maybe couples commissions loveing pictures togather, sex or not, May not appear that way with it maybe being rough or kinky, but if they know they love eachother. it's might not be so clear to the rest of us whom just see, a picture of two people doing stuff.
Well, guess it's all just very relative. I just miss seeing caring love and tenderness... buuut that's me.
But yes, you did word that better then I did, that it CAN be selfish. But as a person, its not for me. as simple as that. If others do enjot it, Great. aslong as they not put it up in my face im happy for everyone. :)
And I doudt your alone on the fact that you miss seeing a little more love here and there. Would be delightful to see some more I'd say. ^^
I recently finished reading a very sweet inflation story that went sour so quickly it would make your head spin. A human finds a starved dragoness and feeds her, enjoying the fact that whatever she eats is instantly turned into soft, squishy fat. And at first, they both care for each other, the dragoness nuzzling him gratefully, and he pets her and feeds her and keeps her company. But she ends up getting too greedy, and in the end, eats the human, everyone else in the world, and finally the world itself, without so much as a twinge of regret. You can bet that that didn't just tug my heartstrings, it broke them, and true to the journal, I felt cold and empty inside once I finished reading it. People tell me I shouldn't be so attached to what amounts as words on a screen, but... I can't help it.