Sooo some interesting news..

My boyfriend has been talking to me for a few months now about wanting a harem..no for real he's used that word..but in all seriousness he's been interested in polyamory, ever since he's divorced his ex wife. Hes felt that he's been sorta missing something..something more then just one person.

I been very negative about the whole thing..but I notice how happy he is being around someone else..someone else to cuddle and talk to.

I've never really thought about the possibility of being in a polyamory relationship until recently..when I realized that when I was single..I had a few people that I flirted with and felt comfortable with. And I did cheat while with certain people..I realized now that it wasn't the fact that the relationship was wrong for me I just needed something to be added to THE relationship..multiply it if you will.

Soo threw thinking very hard for a couple months I've come to the conclusion that I that added a second or even third person to the mix doesn't sound like half bad of an idea..so wish me luck..I'm going to create an OkCupid page for me and him seeking a single bisexual female (since he's straight and I'm pansexual). I may or may not in the future seek for someone for myself separate from the relationship..but for now I'd like to have someone be added to our relationship. I met John off of OkCupid..so I figured I'd give it a go for what we're currently looking for as a couple. We been dating since November, the weekend after Thanksgiving...and I think its time we added something to us.