Is your character an extension of yourself?
12 years ago
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I had a conversation with my good bud
Tielhawk a few weeks ago about this, sort of.
Well, it was more about calling each other by our 'fursona' names. It was a funny back and forth because we both had opposite views on it.
I always considered our representative fursona's names to just be aliases. I would most likely call someone on FA by whatever name their character goes by, but if I actually became their friend, I'd drop that name and actually call them by their real names, if they were okay with that.
I am aware that users here do call each other by their fursona names regardless, and I was just curious about the reasoning behind it. Most of my FA friends I didn't actually meet from FA, so we all kind of go by the same idea that I believe in. We always call each other by our real names. I'd actually find it really weird if anyone called me 'Orion' offline.
I don't really consider Orion to be an extension of myself. At least, not anymore, I guess. I'm actually making a character that is closer to myself, and he's a tibetan mastiff~ I need to finish designing him @_@
But anyway, thoughts? Opinions? I'm really curious.
Tielhawk a few weeks ago about this, sort of. Well, it was more about calling each other by our 'fursona' names. It was a funny back and forth because we both had opposite views on it.
I always considered our representative fursona's names to just be aliases. I would most likely call someone on FA by whatever name their character goes by, but if I actually became their friend, I'd drop that name and actually call them by their real names, if they were okay with that.
I am aware that users here do call each other by their fursona names regardless, and I was just curious about the reasoning behind it. Most of my FA friends I didn't actually meet from FA, so we all kind of go by the same idea that I believe in. We always call each other by our real names. I'd actually find it really weird if anyone called me 'Orion' offline.
I don't really consider Orion to be an extension of myself. At least, not anymore, I guess. I'm actually making a character that is closer to myself, and he's a tibetan mastiff~ I need to finish designing him @_@
But anyway, thoughts? Opinions? I'm really curious.
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As for the character/fursona... I guess it's a sort-of extension? I use it as an alter ego, I guess. I have a lot of characters with which I can identify, though. I don't have some sort of deep emotional or spiritual attachment to my fursona.
Everyone calls me noka even though my fursona is named Blitz. Not to mention, my icon is showing someone else's OC.
I'm guessing if the username matches the fursona name, that's where the alias becomes hard to detach.
I'd say my character Wolfie is a pretty good representation/extension of myself. We're both average joes. But generally happy and content. I put a lot of my own personality into him. :)
But as an extension of myself? Hmm, I wouldn't say currently per se but I guess in a reality where anthropomorphic beings did exist I'd say my fursona would probably represent what it would be.
Slendy
Kaito
Gildarts
Len
Voku (my sona)
Zero
Kalin
Nero
Dante
and my actual name - Ben.
Which in turn gives me -
Benny
Benny-boy
Benji
and Bane, since I adopt the voice of Bane from Batman constantly.
Although Slendy is common since I stalk people in my Morphsuit constantly x3
It's kind of weird when people say my first name, but it's not weird when the children I take care for say it (I work in Early Childhood).
But I've always been Saba and Saba has always been me, he's just prettier and has stripes. :3
I, personally, loathe my real name...with a burning passion. Thus, I ask those who want my name, to call me by; Kaine. :3 It's just who I am.
So, to answer any questions; My Fursona's are extensions of myself. I have based them solely off of my personality and in a spiritual sense as well. They are me, in Fursona form, so to speak. :3 Thus, I enjoy being called by those names, versus my real name. 8D
I'm Eik, DK Eik is DK Eik. :D
'sides that, I love werewolves/lycanthropes, hence the combination of those two words to make up a name (which is a bit hard to pronounce for most people.. for some reason haha!). I wouldn't mind being called Were both on net or in real life though. Werewolves are just my thing and why not let people around you remember you by the things you're interested in?
Cheers, it's a good topic to think about. :)
For those I meet online and have never meet in real life, I have a tendency to stick to my fursona name because I don't necessarily think you need to know my real name *Shrugs* Its more a fear of creeps on the internet I guess? hahaha
Also, the name of my fursona was easy, its a name I've been in love with for years. And I respond to it easily.
I also think it would be different in suit. I would 100% of the time, in suit, only want to be called Skye, where as at a meet with just a tail on *Shrugs* Either or, haha. And I think I would want people in the fandom that I don't know personally to know my fursona name and use that. Skye is an extension of myself and so using her name... Its kind of, natural?
^_^
We came to the conclusion that our characters are either developing into our ideal selves (more confident, physically stronger, more deviant) - some of those traits have entered into us as people; or on the other hand they're a figment of traits which can't be developed physically for whatever reason (Tig is a feral fur, but for obvious reasons that can't be changed in real life for example)
As for fursona names, if I know someone well enough I'll use both their fur name and their real name interchangeably (I don't mind being called by my real name of Kate, it shows people are interested to know the person behind the fursona) :3
Also, excite to see your Tibetan mastiff :o
We have the exact same personality :)
However, after I have told someone my real name, it can be weird if they don't call me by it
tru fax
I have 3 other characters that, while I do consider extensions and fursonae, are not so directly representational of me. They are fragments of me and my personality as a whole, inspired by my likes, the animals they are and their habits, and the parts of me that they represent.
For instance, my tiger, Imatsu, is the passion, lust, and anger that is a very real part of who I am. I'm a very sexual person in general and as such the tiger fit the bill. He is my chinese sign, as well he has the power of fire, very aggressive and draining powers inspired by the elemental influence the Chinese zodiac incompasses as well.
The lion and bear are the same, And while they are easier to embellish since they're intentionally exaggerated facets of me, they still hold a piece of me that I identify greatly with, giving me a connection to them that is impossible to detach or trivialize.
Just how I roll I guess. I could elaborate more but I'm pretty much sleep. Figured I'd just throw my pennies in.
In short, furry isn't a lifestyle for me, it's a hobby. My "fursona" is a character I play and my handle is a goofy name that I got from a GWAR song. I am myself behind the handle, but I prefer if people call me by my real name. =p
me included :x.So, I believe people like being called by their fursona name because they are identified with their cool character, or with his works, or just for
being 'unique'. If anyone calls me by my fursona IRL, I know that person probably saw my works, or my galleries, or anything related.
(not to mention it is funny indeed xD). It can also be that they just don't like their name or, in extreme cases, themselves...
Anyway, for the sake of a secure storytelling, I'm trying lately to set my fursona apart from me as far as I can, little by little.
I don't mind what I'm called, though I will react different depending on who called me, how and where.
I always check the user profile to see what he/she prefers being called... What can I do if I can just call you Orion? ù_u
i prefer my real name, but it doesn't stick
I suppose I prefer that they use my 'sona name because it's not something most people would ever call me
As for my fur friends online, even if we do learn each other's real names, we always stick to our fursona names
years ago it sorta it did
few years ago felt more like a property
nowadays I feel kinda detached
XDXD XD
Eventually - especially after I started attending cons - people began referring to me as Soba, and these days, probably 99% of the people I interact with don't even know what my real name is! I just went with it, as Soba is a sufficiently silly and nonthreatening name to sound okay even when verbalized. :)
I've never really cared much about what people called me. My character's name is just like a nickname, so I will respond to it if that's the only name you know. But then again, i'll answer to just about anything if I know you're talking about me XD
As for my relation with some other people here? for those that I don´t know I don´t have any other option but to call them by their account name or with the name that they have on their profile. BUT, for my friends, I always rather more to call them by their real name, if they allow me to know it first, of course. If not, regardless, it´s for respect to call them what they want. And about me? I prefere to be called by my real name, Symbolhero, Hero, Red, or Scaly are kinda strange for me to hear XD
Either that or I have bren called ly so many times its basically just a nickname I recognize myself by, so it doesnt really bother me in the slightest. But hey, that is probably just me I suppose
Well few people people call me "Eduarizard" who are Pokemon fans, and most of them know my real name as "Eduardo" cuz I remove char to Edua. Well I used to be shy for showing my real name but I'm getting use to it.
I say it's normal for people can call each other nicknames
I sometimes think of my main fursona as something like of role model (even in real life) for me. sometimes when I'm facing some stressful situation I say to myself "calm down and think about what your better self would do"
For the most part, my sona is a direct representation of me aside from a few notable things like, of course im not that muscular x3 or as tall, he's 1ft taller than i am irl which isnt very tall. Physical traits like the chinstrap beard, goatee, glasses, top head hair, that's all me. His personality is also mine, fierce, fighter but loving and caring, music nerd, musician, Sax player (saxwuff) :P
Reason I picked wolf is because "wolfman" is a name that followed me since i was 5 years old, I have lots of hair, always had, even at birth.
TLDR: yes
Though, I am called by my character name around furries and not when I'm around non furry friends, it also helps translate how I'd act. Like you wouldn't act the same way around your family as your friends, this just gives an extra push.
However, I've had people on FA and DA call me Erikku and Erick. After all Erikku is just the Japanese way of saying my name ^^;
I think this is a good question though. Many people see there sona as an extension of themselves while others don't. It's fascinating to say the least.
To me, Torsut is kind of an identity. Not something that I resort to, or just use online. but a full-on identity that's evolved as the years have passed by. Writing about years-ago Torsut is equivalent to writing about experiences I had in school years ago, in that I'm still very embarrassed about some of the things I've done, and wish I could change it, but feel as though changing too much of it would be dishonest to the point of giving me guilt.
I've thought about it a lot, and I'm not really sure what to make of it. I had one very vivid, detailed dream when I was 11 that changed everything, in which I was Torsut and I went on an extended adventure that probably counts as my best dream and worst nightmare at once. I felt a lot of weird dragonish things from that night on, but at the same time, I realize that there's nothing special about it, and it was just a dream.
The end result, though, was that I woke up a lot different than before. I just had to write, because I'd had such an insane dream. My memory also happened to get worse sometime after the dream, and I developed an obsession with dragons. I remembered the dream really strongly, and... I guess in a way, the memories made me feel like I'd done a lot of things before, and put a lot of things that I'd worried about on a smaller scale, while making me paranoid about things I hadn't given a shit about prior.
From that, I sort of developed this stance that I am Torsut, or I'm all that's left of him. And based on what I've become, I'd try to conclude that Torsut is me, and I've made up all sorts of other characters, some that I find much more interesting than myself, to occupy this world that I explored in my dream. I've gone and expanded on it, too, and it's all just become a big mess of memory and imagination, and I guess I think it's better that way, kind of like being Torsut is made better by the experiences I've had since then.
That's my attempt. I'm kind of groggy today, so forgive my lack of clarity.