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Wonder how I met my rainbow? Relationship meme saves the day
12 years ago
Some of you guys might wonder how I got in touch with my boyfriend. I realized I never really told anybody alot of how we met and the hardships we went through so I thought this might be a fun way to do it.
Enjoy readin!
1. Who is your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Tigersclawswiss my rainbow <3
2. How did you two meet?
We originally met each other 4 years ago at EF. It was the last year at Ringberg and I just happened to meet him a few times in his fursuit Arex and generally had a good time with him. I had a different boyfriend back then but he wasn't that happy with how many people knew me and decided to follow his own path. I added him on ICQ/Skype back then and we talked a little bit and decided to meet up at a dutch fursuit meeting in Delft. From there on the hardship started and I decided to go after him.
He never knew what he was getting into ;)
Fun fact : He didn't even remember who I was after that EF.
3. When did y'all officially start dating?
Hard to say, he was so differently back then and didn't give much about love nor relationships. He was a wild spirit and jumped and bounced around alot. He changed alot over the years. I'd say we started officially dating around two years ago when we decided we would definiatly go for it and not break up even though the distance was huge.
4. Did you meet online?
Technically we met at EF but practically from his side we met online as he didn't remember me after EF ;)
5. What attracted you the most to him/her?
I'm not a guy that goes for how somebody looks. Alot of people were after him and he was totally not my type back then but somehow I saw something in him and a few years later I was proven right. The real him came to the surface and it was all worth it. I love you hun!
6. Is he/she what you expected?
At start he was somebody that I could not handle. He did whatever he pleased, didn't really focus on me and thought his friends were just as valueable as me and just couldn't understand me and my feelings. And to be fair he couldn't handle how I was either. Luckely we both showed each other what we meant and felt and we both changed for the best. So yes, he became what I expected him to be and I wouldn't wish it any other way.
7. Did you have sex on your first date?
No, neither did we on the other ones following. I don't like sex on the first few dates as it shouldn't be the focus.
8. Are you two freaks in bed?
Freaks? Animals could be spot on though!
9. Do you live with him?
No I don't, he lives in Switzerland and I live in the Netherlands. This is quite the distance but we are working towards living together once I get a job or finish my education. I have no idea in which country we end up but I don't mind as long we are together.
10. Are you snugglers?
?
11. What was the last compliment he gave you?
Him blushing on our first date meant alot as he wasn't the type back then to like it so it was quite the compliment to me.
12. How long have you been dating?
For about 4 years now haha
13. Would you spend the rest of your life with them?
Once we find a spot to live together we certainly will! We are made for each other like two retarded magnets always pointing at each other haha!
14. When will you see them next?
Will see him on American grounds at AC. I can't wait!
15. What interests do you share?
We both like fursuiting, traveling and trying new food alot!
16. Is there something you regret?
I regret hurting him a few times because of my weaknesses in social skills and understandment. I hope you can forgive me for that.
17. What was the last thing he/she gave you?
A chance to join him on his adventure at AC and afterwards in Florida for a 2.5 week long roundtrip. It's the best gift and we will make it the best trip ever!
18. What was the last thing you gave him?
I honestly can't remember. I believe it's taking him to the cinema to see Iron man 3 with a nice dinner at Kyoto (sushi all you can eat) afterwards. But seriously he deserves alot more <3
19. Is he willing to sacrifice for you?
He's willing to sacrifice his life I feel. There is no words to describe.
20. Has he given you a ring?
No. He did gave me a necklace in the shape of angel wings as symbol of our rebirth in our relationship.
If you have any questions place them down here.
Enjoy readin!
1. Who is your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Tigersclawswiss my rainbow <32. How did you two meet?
We originally met each other 4 years ago at EF. It was the last year at Ringberg and I just happened to meet him a few times in his fursuit Arex and generally had a good time with him. I had a different boyfriend back then but he wasn't that happy with how many people knew me and decided to follow his own path. I added him on ICQ/Skype back then and we talked a little bit and decided to meet up at a dutch fursuit meeting in Delft. From there on the hardship started and I decided to go after him.
He never knew what he was getting into ;)
Fun fact : He didn't even remember who I was after that EF.
3. When did y'all officially start dating?
Hard to say, he was so differently back then and didn't give much about love nor relationships. He was a wild spirit and jumped and bounced around alot. He changed alot over the years. I'd say we started officially dating around two years ago when we decided we would definiatly go for it and not break up even though the distance was huge.
4. Did you meet online?
Technically we met at EF but practically from his side we met online as he didn't remember me after EF ;)
5. What attracted you the most to him/her?
I'm not a guy that goes for how somebody looks. Alot of people were after him and he was totally not my type back then but somehow I saw something in him and a few years later I was proven right. The real him came to the surface and it was all worth it. I love you hun!
6. Is he/she what you expected?
At start he was somebody that I could not handle. He did whatever he pleased, didn't really focus on me and thought his friends were just as valueable as me and just couldn't understand me and my feelings. And to be fair he couldn't handle how I was either. Luckely we both showed each other what we meant and felt and we both changed for the best. So yes, he became what I expected him to be and I wouldn't wish it any other way.
7. Did you have sex on your first date?
No, neither did we on the other ones following. I don't like sex on the first few dates as it shouldn't be the focus.
8. Are you two freaks in bed?
Freaks? Animals could be spot on though!
9. Do you live with him?
No I don't, he lives in Switzerland and I live in the Netherlands. This is quite the distance but we are working towards living together once I get a job or finish my education. I have no idea in which country we end up but I don't mind as long we are together.
10. Are you snugglers?
?
11. What was the last compliment he gave you?
Him blushing on our first date meant alot as he wasn't the type back then to like it so it was quite the compliment to me.
12. How long have you been dating?
For about 4 years now haha
13. Would you spend the rest of your life with them?
Once we find a spot to live together we certainly will! We are made for each other like two retarded magnets always pointing at each other haha!
14. When will you see them next?
Will see him on American grounds at AC. I can't wait!
15. What interests do you share?
We both like fursuiting, traveling and trying new food alot!
16. Is there something you regret?
I regret hurting him a few times because of my weaknesses in social skills and understandment. I hope you can forgive me for that.
17. What was the last thing he/she gave you?
A chance to join him on his adventure at AC and afterwards in Florida for a 2.5 week long roundtrip. It's the best gift and we will make it the best trip ever!
18. What was the last thing you gave him?
I honestly can't remember. I believe it's taking him to the cinema to see Iron man 3 with a nice dinner at Kyoto (sushi all you can eat) afterwards. But seriously he deserves alot more <3
19. Is he willing to sacrifice for you?
He's willing to sacrifice his life I feel. There is no words to describe.
20. Has he given you a ring?
No. He did gave me a necklace in the shape of angel wings as symbol of our rebirth in our relationship.
If you have any questions place them down here.
What things do you believe are needed for a relationship to be successful?
Most furries I know jump into sex as soon as they can and shove dating or romance as a whole aside and break up about a month later because they are bored, get in big fights or do something the other can't forgive him or her for.
If you want a good and healthy relationship it's just very important to date alot at the start, forget about sex for now, talk alot and figure each other out before even going for a relationship. Be sure you love the person not for what he does, how he looks or how good the sex is or even that he's there for you but that you actually love him or her for how they are from the inside. If the building stones are set correctly your relationship is alot stronger. My boyfriend and me had alot of hardships and we almost broke up alot of times but in the end the love found us back and we just couldn't go without each other and decided to give it another go. That's how strong it should be before you even consider calling yourself a relationship.
The times you and your boyfriend nearly broke up, what were the reasons it got to that point?
Do you believe that relationships can evolve without the dating part?
Maybe I have a misunderstanding about dating itself, but for me dating means going out with someone you like/have a crush for.
My mate and I weren't actually dating when we first knew each other, but we grew very attached and open. In a very short amount of time I learned quite alot of the guy who I have been in relationship for 3 years now. The crush part only came very short before we made it official, if I think back about it it went very fast. But it was very strong, very strong indeed
The point is that you need to get to learn each other before you jump into it together and dating is the best way to do this :)