Find a support group for families of someone with cancer. It will help, I have gone through (am still going through) cancer diagnosis and I needed help and support. I'm 100% certain that some members of my family would have failed mentally without a support group.
It might not feel like much now but once you meet a group of people all going through what you are going through your pain and fear lessens. You have people to lean on who know how you feel.
It helps. It's worth looking for it. It's horrifying to be told you have cancer and I'm sure it's just as horrifying to be told someone you love has cancer, considering how my family reacted, I think it was worse for them to know I was diagnosed.

I hope you can get out there to be with your mom. I've been in remission a few years but i still see the pain my family feels while I sit and wait for test results hoping growth isn't found. Find support. It's not hard with a google search or just talking to your local hospital. There are resources.

At the very least having gone through cancer as well, I know what my mom is going through, just that my sisters are making the situation about 200x more stressful. She and my sisters have been treating it like I have no idea what she's putting up with and that I must be a real selfish butt for not spending every waking moment there. It's not even what she's going through so much as whether or not she'll actually make it. That's what's making it hard. That and the family having the air of me being a disappointing prick, especially since the issue that I was facing is the fact that our car's transmission is leaking. Can't really risk road trip with a leaky transmission.

Just bought the plane ticket, looks like I get to be up there for a few weeks. I'm only doing it for her. It's easier to be supportive of her fighting the cancer since I beat it and she already beat one type of cancer, it's a whole new level to deal with my sisters.

Thank you for your support. :>

Come to me if you ever need to rant/need fluffy gryph hugs/stupid jokes/etc.

Thank you hun <3 hugs and everything definitely help, right now I just wanna curl up into a little ball and pop into confetti

awwww *hugs*

Aww man. -snugs on- Sorry about the situation hun. You're more than welcome to talk to me about anything if you need too.

Take all the time you need though~

*hugs* thank you. things will be okay one way or another. just right now i gotta go up and help her as much as i can.

Do what you need to do.
And most of all, hang in there. <3

It's okay Noma, take your time <33 I'll always be here for you. If you need ANYTHING please please let me know. I'll even spare you some money if you need it! I hope everything is okay, take your time.

She is lucky to have such an amazing daughter to love her and be there fir her. I am sure that will make all the difference to her. Hopefully she will best thus soon and I understand about the draining feeling. Just wake up in the morning and say, "I am going this for her."