Happy birthday anyway. *hug*

Don't feel down about yourself. Very few people manage to "get it together" by the time they are 25. I didn't start getting to that point until I was around 40, and I'm still not there yet. I used to get depressed about it, because it always looked like the world around me was figuring it out faster than I was. Now I realize that wasn't the case. The best things in life do take patience though. I know it may not seem like much, but you've made my day brighter a few times already. :)

Happy Birthday hun... *hugs*

I'm still trying to pull my life into cohesiveness, I'm in SO much debt! X3

25 huh? Cheers to us then. Don't worry about havin' all your ducks in a row. Society puts too much stress on a person's life agenda: "Do good in school." "Get a good job." "When you gettin' married?" "When you havin' kids?" and on and on. It's maddening. You can't run yourself ragged trying to do everything you think people want from you.