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How Do You Get Close to Someone?
12 years ago
Live life, breathe air
I know somehow we're gonna get there
And feel so wonderful
And it's all for real Meh, I have no issue socializing what-so-ever. I'm never shy. But, the thing is when I talk to someone its like that is all there is to it- a little chitter chatter.
I deeply envy those who know how to make a true friend and not just an acquaintance. I'm at Megaplex right now and have smiled at and greeted everyone I possibly could. But, yet I still find myself being screwed over and taken for granted after I have showed that I truly care and help with whatever..
(I hate feeling this way.. so useless and pathetic!)
I want to know how you actually make a connection with a person. Is that so bad?
I deeply envy those who know how to make a true friend and not just an acquaintance. I'm at Megaplex right now and have smiled at and greeted everyone I possibly could. But, yet I still find myself being screwed over and taken for granted after I have showed that I truly care and help with whatever..
(I hate feeling this way.. so useless and pathetic!)
I want to know how you actually make a connection with a person. Is that so bad?
MatCollie
~matcollie
What mean? are you having a hard time making friends there? owo
Dragontrove
~dragontrove
Just be yourself and just try to have a great conversation. I know ours don't last long since I'm usually doing something, but you're still so nice and polite
Robear87
~robear87
Takes more than a single conversation. Make a connection and then expand upon it. Ask for their FA or Skype info so you can talk to them after the con. and don't try to force that friendship if the chemistry isn't there. It either will happen or it won't. The most important thing is not to hunt for friendships like a deer in the woods because they'll sense it and run, instead be open to friendships and possibilities and people will tend to migrate towards the openness. I hope that helps.
PupQueen
~muffymckenney
OP
Yeah, it does. Thanks.
save-never
~save-never
I'm the worst to ask about this I'm to trusting. I dont see that people will stab you in the back then smile at you as they while they fine a good place to stick the knife . I've take every chance to try make those true close friendships but I've been burned. I guess you have to be burned a lot to find those true friends but I think its worth it cause We're all worried, we're all in pain. That just comes with having eyes, ears and brains. But just remember one thing it can't get any worse, it can only get better. dont loose hope keep trying
