you aren't dumb bud. just real friends are hard to find, but they are out there

Thanks,but according to them few,im the dumb one for standing up for myself,and hoping to help,and hoping to get trust and respect as I give it.....

it's not dumb to stand up for yourself. what kind of reserve world are they living in?

I dont really know.......and as the saying goes: "With friends like that,who needs enemies?"

heh well this is one friend who doesn't act like that =/

Yeah,and some other too,but why do I try and pull my hair out over others that just take take take and never give?

no idea. for me if they cant return the same courtesy then they aren't very good friends

I know,and I hear often to just leave them alone and think what they want.I know it wont bother them at all,but I lose sleep and get really stressed-out over it.....even though I should just not care about them anymore if they so easily do the same.....I just cant bring myself down to that level.Its going to haunst me for quite some time losing them....

*bods* its hard losing a friend, but honestly some aren't just worth holding onto. especially when they act like that

Yeah.... They were worth it to me though.......