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12 years ago
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i just want to say a little thing about notes. this isn't about anything or anyone specific, it's just a thing that happens. please only send me notes if it's important. i don't mean to make myself seem unapproachable, because i certainly love talking to my watchers and friends. that's one of the main reasons i have livestreams often! notes just make me really nervous. whenever i see a new note pop up, my anxiety levels spike so high that sometimes my breath catches for a second and i have a legit moment of panic. i always worry that's it's going to be about something bad, or some drama, or something like that. now, 90% of the time it's NOT. but it's just like why i hate talking on the phone; i never know what's going to happen, and it freaks me out. ugh, anxiety problems >.<
now if you have a question/comment/concern, whether it's about me or a commission or commissions in general or....i dunno what, or if it IS something bad like someone stealing my art or something - anything like that - that's perfectly fine. i'm not saying "don't note me at all under any circumstances, ever" cuz then i'd just turn my notes off and that would be mean.
i'd rather not get notes that just say "hi"/"hey"/"how are you?" things like that. notes aren't an instant messenger service (and it annoys me when people start conversations just like that on messenger too. there's just nothing really to say to something that short). i also find it difficult when people note me and want to have LONG back and forth conversations. it's hard for me to keep on topic when it's over a long period of time (especially when it gets longer/delayed because i get busy), and it also brings back that terrible anxiety every time i see that new note.
the last kind of note i really don't like getting are the ones asking about rp, and/or if i'm in a relationship. first of all, i don't rp, especially in adult settings. second, it's no one's business if i'm in a relationship unless i happen to mention it, and saying "hey, do you have a boyfriend?" to someone you've never so much as talked to before can easily be construed as creeper-ish. plus, it clearly says on my profile "please keep all of your creepy murry-purry/overly-forward/any-kind-of-advances away from me please, whether RP or otherwise. i'm not interested"
BUT! ANYWAY! i just wanted to say that. asking me questions and sending me notes is fine, just please try to make sure it's important. if you want to talk to me, i would prefer it be in a livestream. i am very sorry if this sounded mean or harsh in any way, as i didn't mean for it to at all, and i hope that everyone understands ^_^
-Nix
i just want to say a little thing about notes. this isn't about anything or anyone specific, it's just a thing that happens. please only send me notes if it's important. i don't mean to make myself seem unapproachable, because i certainly love talking to my watchers and friends. that's one of the main reasons i have livestreams often! notes just make me really nervous. whenever i see a new note pop up, my anxiety levels spike so high that sometimes my breath catches for a second and i have a legit moment of panic. i always worry that's it's going to be about something bad, or some drama, or something like that. now, 90% of the time it's NOT. but it's just like why i hate talking on the phone; i never know what's going to happen, and it freaks me out. ugh, anxiety problems >.<
now if you have a question/comment/concern, whether it's about me or a commission or commissions in general or....i dunno what, or if it IS something bad like someone stealing my art or something - anything like that - that's perfectly fine. i'm not saying "don't note me at all under any circumstances, ever" cuz then i'd just turn my notes off and that would be mean.
i'd rather not get notes that just say "hi"/"hey"/"how are you?" things like that. notes aren't an instant messenger service (and it annoys me when people start conversations just like that on messenger too. there's just nothing really to say to something that short). i also find it difficult when people note me and want to have LONG back and forth conversations. it's hard for me to keep on topic when it's over a long period of time (especially when it gets longer/delayed because i get busy), and it also brings back that terrible anxiety every time i see that new note.
the last kind of note i really don't like getting are the ones asking about rp, and/or if i'm in a relationship. first of all, i don't rp, especially in adult settings. second, it's no one's business if i'm in a relationship unless i happen to mention it, and saying "hey, do you have a boyfriend?" to someone you've never so much as talked to before can easily be construed as creeper-ish. plus, it clearly says on my profile "please keep all of your creepy murry-purry/overly-forward/any-kind-of-advances away from me please, whether RP or otherwise. i'm not interested"
BUT! ANYWAY! i just wanted to say that. asking me questions and sending me notes is fine, just please try to make sure it's important. if you want to talk to me, i would prefer it be in a livestream. i am very sorry if this sounded mean or harsh in any way, as i didn't mean for it to at all, and i hope that everyone understands ^_^
-Nix
Totally understandable.
Some people ....