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Days of college, 132 is my number
12 years ago
When I started college, I had a group of friends that were very sexually open. They were my first gay friends (and first gay people I knew) and showed me the LGBT community. I felt free being able to be myself for once. They also introduced me to hooking up
Having been in college twice now and being an overall curious shiba, it gave me a lot of chances to be experimental with my sexuality. This also gives me stories and experiences to tell! Thats what this new series of artwork will be about. My experiences with 132 different people (give or take a couple. 132 just had a nice ring to it). I'll pick out what part of them reminds me most about that experience and draw it. Some of them will be interesting, like one with blindfolds and handcuffs or having a threesome. Some will be a bit boring since there wasnt anything really interesting about them.
132 sounds like a lot of people, but when you think about that this took place over 6 years of college, thats only about 22 per year out of 365 days haha. Some of my friends have had more. One of them being bisexual had almost 400 sex partners, both male and female. My number stop rising for now, since i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend of a few months.
How many sex partners have you had? Or if you haven't had any, how many would you want to have or be most comfortable with having?
PS. I know some people will judge me for the high number (as it has happened before), but I dont care. We play it safe, we make sure both parties are consensual and we have fun. We talk to the other party to make sure they're trustworthy, and most often we're after the same thing; fun sex (Rarely do they want to kidnap, murder, rape, or spread STDs to me, which is never if you play it safe). As long as there's respect and safe practice involved, I dont see it being a problem.
Having been in college twice now and being an overall curious shiba, it gave me a lot of chances to be experimental with my sexuality. This also gives me stories and experiences to tell! Thats what this new series of artwork will be about. My experiences with 132 different people (give or take a couple. 132 just had a nice ring to it). I'll pick out what part of them reminds me most about that experience and draw it. Some of them will be interesting, like one with blindfolds and handcuffs or having a threesome. Some will be a bit boring since there wasnt anything really interesting about them.
132 sounds like a lot of people, but when you think about that this took place over 6 years of college, thats only about 22 per year out of 365 days haha. Some of my friends have had more. One of them being bisexual had almost 400 sex partners, both male and female. My number stop rising for now, since i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend of a few months.
How many sex partners have you had? Or if you haven't had any, how many would you want to have or be most comfortable with having?
PS. I know some people will judge me for the high number (as it has happened before), but I dont care. We play it safe, we make sure both parties are consensual and we have fun. We talk to the other party to make sure they're trustworthy, and most often we're after the same thing; fun sex (Rarely do they want to kidnap, murder, rape, or spread STDs to me, which is never if you play it safe). As long as there's respect and safe practice involved, I dont see it being a problem.
That said, I'm excited to see what interesting experiences you'll be providing to our sick and perverted entertainment XD
Thanks! I'm looking forward to it too!
"You can be cheap, or you can be easy. Don't ever be neither, or people won't come to you, and don't ever be both, unless you want to spend your life as a used cumrag."
No, that's not a joke That's actual advice she gave me X3 She's kind of awesome like that. In any case, it's something worth thinking about.
I just dont think theres really any rules to live life by, except the ones you set for yourself. I only have one which is to be respectful of other people.
On the otherhand, that is a catchy advice
Yes, it is decent advice :P I had oddball parents, to say the least.
I think this whole stigma of "bodily value" comes from society's habit of slut shaming and that if you're having lots of sex, you're somehow less of a person than you were before. In the end, its your own body and you can do what you want with it, and I'll respect your decision to share your body only with people who find it special. I think that's nice too
I need better friends.
I'm not sure if I ever wanna do it with someone, since I don't really feel myself to be ready for sex or a relationship, despite what some of the commissions I uploaded onto my gallery might tell about me. I'm fine with looking at/buying naughty artwork, but actually doing it with someone seems frightening to me, at least for now, I guess.
It's weird, I know. xD
But that was a while back. Heh, I'm over it now. :P
But yeah, nothing wrong with sharing the love. In 7 years of being sexually active, I've stayed healthy, happy, and haven't regretted a thing. Well, okay maybe that one guy. And that other one. Okay, three. I can count three guys I legitimately regret. But overall I feel like by opening myself up to so many different people, I've made myself a better person. Or just a hippie born too late for the 60s. Whichever.
That said! I've always held back with my own sexuality. I've had quite a few offers in my time so far, but have acted on 0. I always have wondered what would be thought of me, or how that shaming could hurt me. Even still I have a hard time trying to admit to any sort of desires or interests I have...
But I'm hoping to change that and at least try to explore new things. Breaking through that gut-feeling of possible shame is pretty hard to get past though!
needless to say, the anonymous scene is kinda scary, but also comforting to me at the same time. of course there's the scare of STDs and whether someone is crazy and murderous or not, but then there's also the fact that there's nothing really attaching you to that particular person. it really takes a lot of the responsibility of committing to anything off your shoulders. no need to talk about it when you're done, no need to call them back, no need to ever even see them again.
I have intimacy issuesAnd that's coming from someone who's only had one partner lol
Personally, I feel the more pleasure you can give, and the more you can experience, the better,
provided nobody gets hurt, or sick, or pregnant.
I really am at absolute 0.
I almost feel like not having sex for so long, I'm not missing much.
Not for lack of want, though.
But sadly most of them just have one time with me because many reason like just came by and see me.
It's surprisingly you counting so far...Even it over one hundred...If it is me I would not such care about the numbers...
Glad to here your stody, it makes me feel knowing about you more..Thx for sharing