Aaaaaand why are you not allowed?

my mom hates them

You do know you can grow up, move out and be an adult unless there is a spesific reason why you can not do these common rituals of a common person. There is tons of stuff my mom nor dad don't like and there is a ton of things they do that I don't like but we have all agreed the other is an adult with their own opinions and lives.

"not allowed to ever have one" only takes a year or two depending on your age. So wait for few years and you are free to wear a fursuit all day long if you wish.

I am 23 and can not live on my own

Why can't you live on your own?

cause I can't cook...

or work

Why can't you do these things?

physical and metal problems

fair enough

yep i need family...