Is that a word? I think so~

Okay! lets start from that point, "being positive", so we know we all have problems and some of them with no real easy/immediate solution or any solutions at all! these problems might drill into our heads and not allow us to continue living our lives how we liked to.

But at some point we need to think about "why", why is that such a problem, why is it affecting me, why can't I move on?, putting that and many other whys in perspective will allow you to better understand the root of the problem. To give you a bit of an example, back in the day my biggest why was "Why am I gay", dark times in my life indeed!

The funny thing is that "little problem" was all what used to bother me at that point in my life, and now looking back at it, it wasn't a problem at all, but the fact remained. I didn't find an answer to my why until I met Ruick, but because of the fact that I couldn't find a why I decided to simply say "fuck it", when a problem doesn't have that visible solution you just need to accept it, be conscious about it and go on, being sad or desperate can take a lot of time out of our lives, and we don't have much time to waste.

Focus on problems you can solve, but don't let the ones you can't solve define you, being positive is not something that comes naturally, do it because you are stubborn, or because you are strong, or because there's nothing else you can do to make things better.

Be positive, it sounds better than being sad, and we all need goals!