Sorry I've been off and on for the past few weeks but my dad had a large lump removed that came back as malignant cancer and I'm kinda freaked out and stressed about it. Dad has surgery to remove more of it (one hopes all of it) tomorrow. The scars going to be huge..and while i love you guys i really dont want to talk about it. ;;

Just a heads up if i dont reply for days or if i reply way behind. Between the doctors,kittens,work and housework I'm frazzled to put it mildly.