Post-Election Roundup: On Legacies, Homophobia, and Change
17 years ago
General
Two thoughts keep rattling around in my little otterish brain as I contemplate the election... an election which was, in many ways, as historic as any we've yet had.
First thought: George W. Bush has finally created for himself that glorious legacy he's long bragged about. Few presidents have been so openly covetous of a 'legacy' as good ol' W. He's been talking it up pretty much since he took office, and especially since 9/11... he's a 'war president', he's a 'deciderer', he's a uniter, not a divider, etc etc. 'Fraid not, at least on those three counts. Let's face it, his tenure as a war commander has been defined largely by all the things his administration could have gotten right, but didn't (we're bogged down in Iraq, there were no WMDs to be found, we didn't get Bin Laden, al-Qaida is alive and well, we're in debt to the tune of hundreds of billions, we failed to stabilize the middle east... at this point it reads like an anti-greatest hits list).
As a 'deciderer', Bush Jr. has displayed time and again that he's perfectly comfortable making decisions, but much less so changing his mind, or being flexible, or knowing much about what he's 'decidering' on. And finally, as for being a uniter rather than a divider... well, sorry, but the aggravated partisanship that's come to define American politics more than speaks for itself. Not that I blame W. entirely, but really, he was always more than happy to draw a line in the sand when it seemed to suit him (memories of his "if you're not with us, you're against us" attitude still linger long after it's become apparent that that kind of bull in a china shop approach doesn't really work too good. Freedom fries, anyone?)
No, Bush Jr.'s legacy (and I do hope he appreciates this) is simple: after eight years of running this country into the dirt, our nation rose up and elected a black Democrat to take his place. Kudos, Dubya... it's one for the history books.
The second thought I'm chewing on has to do with Prop. 8, that notorious little buggaboo having to do with making sure that gay folks don't start thinking they're as good as regular folks. By now most of the nation is familiar with at least the general stuff - Prop 8 essentially said, 'Marriage is for men and women only... homos need not apply, now or ever.' The rationale for this was considerably convoluted. If you live in California, you doubtless saw what seemed like hundreds of commercials demonstrating that keeping marriage away from queers had nothing whatsoever to do with discrimination, or with not liking gays, or anything like that. No, it was about protecting the children, that favorite chestnut of the moral majority. See, 'cause homosexual agents were going to invade schools and... you know... make your kids be gay (it's awfully hard to pray the gay away if your kids grow up with tolerance and acceptance in their hearts. For shame!) Also, it was about protecting churches, because the government would doubtless step in and firebomb your local church if they failed to promote the homosexualist agenda. Oh yeah, and straight people are more deserving of marriage because it's traditional.
The fallout of Prop. 8 has been as predictable as its passage... foes of it are pissed and heartbroken, while proponents are strutting around crowing about how society has finally put the last nail in the coffin of this whole 'gay' thing. Typical letters to the editor written by those goodly folks who voted 'yay' instead of 'nay' have been something along the lines of, "All you uppity homos need to stop whining and accept the fact that society definitively said that marriage just isn't for the likes of you. Get over it."
Prop. 8's proponents seem to be having a hell of a time understanding why gay people are upset that it passed. To them, it was a simple matter of a political issue being decided at the polls, no different than a sales tax increase or a measure to extend public transit. That's because many of them also cannot conceive of a gay couple being legitimately in love... in their minds, being queer is some kind of misguided lifestyle choice that could be easily undone if only the homos would come to their senses and start being straight like they should. Read between the lines of all the commercials and rhetoric, and you come away with a pretty clear sense of what Prop. 8 was truly a referendum on: Are you comfortable with 'the gays', or are you not?
Here's the thing to consider, though. Sure, Prop. 8 passed... by a fairly narrow margin. Compared to Prop. 22 (same idea), which passed in 2000 by 60-some percent of the vote, Prop. 8 won by only about 52 percent. In eight years, the 'moral majority' has lost quite a bit of its punch. If folks think that the issue has at long last been put to rest, well, they're in for as much of a disappointment as gay couples were the day after the election. Just as surely as you can't legislate homosexuality into societal oblivion, neither can you legislate intolerance so easily into the state's constitution. It'll go to the courts, of course, where 'activist judges' will doubtless chew it over and either overturn it, or at the very least leave it de-fanged... and the homophobes can go on feeling sorry for themselves, as though they're the victims.
Some things do change, though, sometimes slowly (Prop. 8) and sometimes in a burst of lightning (Obama) - but they do change. And considering the last eight years, that's not a bad thing.
First thought: George W. Bush has finally created for himself that glorious legacy he's long bragged about. Few presidents have been so openly covetous of a 'legacy' as good ol' W. He's been talking it up pretty much since he took office, and especially since 9/11... he's a 'war president', he's a 'deciderer', he's a uniter, not a divider, etc etc. 'Fraid not, at least on those three counts. Let's face it, his tenure as a war commander has been defined largely by all the things his administration could have gotten right, but didn't (we're bogged down in Iraq, there were no WMDs to be found, we didn't get Bin Laden, al-Qaida is alive and well, we're in debt to the tune of hundreds of billions, we failed to stabilize the middle east... at this point it reads like an anti-greatest hits list).
As a 'deciderer', Bush Jr. has displayed time and again that he's perfectly comfortable making decisions, but much less so changing his mind, or being flexible, or knowing much about what he's 'decidering' on. And finally, as for being a uniter rather than a divider... well, sorry, but the aggravated partisanship that's come to define American politics more than speaks for itself. Not that I blame W. entirely, but really, he was always more than happy to draw a line in the sand when it seemed to suit him (memories of his "if you're not with us, you're against us" attitude still linger long after it's become apparent that that kind of bull in a china shop approach doesn't really work too good. Freedom fries, anyone?)
No, Bush Jr.'s legacy (and I do hope he appreciates this) is simple: after eight years of running this country into the dirt, our nation rose up and elected a black Democrat to take his place. Kudos, Dubya... it's one for the history books.
The second thought I'm chewing on has to do with Prop. 8, that notorious little buggaboo having to do with making sure that gay folks don't start thinking they're as good as regular folks. By now most of the nation is familiar with at least the general stuff - Prop 8 essentially said, 'Marriage is for men and women only... homos need not apply, now or ever.' The rationale for this was considerably convoluted. If you live in California, you doubtless saw what seemed like hundreds of commercials demonstrating that keeping marriage away from queers had nothing whatsoever to do with discrimination, or with not liking gays, or anything like that. No, it was about protecting the children, that favorite chestnut of the moral majority. See, 'cause homosexual agents were going to invade schools and... you know... make your kids be gay (it's awfully hard to pray the gay away if your kids grow up with tolerance and acceptance in their hearts. For shame!) Also, it was about protecting churches, because the government would doubtless step in and firebomb your local church if they failed to promote the homosexualist agenda. Oh yeah, and straight people are more deserving of marriage because it's traditional.
The fallout of Prop. 8 has been as predictable as its passage... foes of it are pissed and heartbroken, while proponents are strutting around crowing about how society has finally put the last nail in the coffin of this whole 'gay' thing. Typical letters to the editor written by those goodly folks who voted 'yay' instead of 'nay' have been something along the lines of, "All you uppity homos need to stop whining and accept the fact that society definitively said that marriage just isn't for the likes of you. Get over it."
Prop. 8's proponents seem to be having a hell of a time understanding why gay people are upset that it passed. To them, it was a simple matter of a political issue being decided at the polls, no different than a sales tax increase or a measure to extend public transit. That's because many of them also cannot conceive of a gay couple being legitimately in love... in their minds, being queer is some kind of misguided lifestyle choice that could be easily undone if only the homos would come to their senses and start being straight like they should. Read between the lines of all the commercials and rhetoric, and you come away with a pretty clear sense of what Prop. 8 was truly a referendum on: Are you comfortable with 'the gays', or are you not?
Here's the thing to consider, though. Sure, Prop. 8 passed... by a fairly narrow margin. Compared to Prop. 22 (same idea), which passed in 2000 by 60-some percent of the vote, Prop. 8 won by only about 52 percent. In eight years, the 'moral majority' has lost quite a bit of its punch. If folks think that the issue has at long last been put to rest, well, they're in for as much of a disappointment as gay couples were the day after the election. Just as surely as you can't legislate homosexuality into societal oblivion, neither can you legislate intolerance so easily into the state's constitution. It'll go to the courts, of course, where 'activist judges' will doubtless chew it over and either overturn it, or at the very least leave it de-fanged... and the homophobes can go on feeling sorry for themselves, as though they're the victims.
Some things do change, though, sometimes slowly (Prop. 8) and sometimes in a burst of lightning (Obama) - but they do change. And considering the last eight years, that's not a bad thing.
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You know the one.
The only way for gays to become accepted is the insertion of them into the popular culture with a positive light.
Then again, the LCD wouldn't get the reference and the message would be lost on them.
(Sorry for the triple-post.)
Prop. 8 is going to be tied up in the courts for quite a while, and honestly I don't see it passing with flying colors through the courts. Even Schwarzenegger thinks it's a lousy idea.
I've heard about many protests going. Personally, I don't think protesting is going to do anything good. There are more of those who oppose it out there. It just gives them a justification for their vote.
Instead, we must show them that gay marriage will not affect their life they way they thought (those children bs), and that they are stripping away the fundamental right from fellow citizens.
PS: Bush gets credit that he broke the country so much that people are desperate for Change(TM).
As you say, though, they're the ones pushing a boulder up a hill. Tolerance is slowly but surely gaining the upper hand in the grand scheme of things. Their kids, and their grandkids, simply aren't going to be blowing a gasket over the 'gay agenda' in the years to come, and really, once gay marriage has had a few years on the books without society imploding, the drive to ban it is going to start seeming as antiquated and ridiculous as racial segregation does today.
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I wouldn't lose too much sleep over Prop. 8... in the long run, it's just another misguided attempt at social engineering that runs counter to the grain of what America is really all about. One day soon, it'll just be another footnote next to all the other bad ideas that couldn't quite pass muster.
At a small liberal arts school, we have just about all of the same opinions on the average. I'm really disheartened for Prop. 8, although I think it might trickle up to the Supreme Courts. Of course, this may or may not be the best, considering the present conservative majority.
I also agree w/ your opinion that "...in their minds, being queer is some kind of misguided lifestyle choice that could be easily undone if only the homos would come to their senses and start being straight like they should." I totally was grown up thinking that, and now sort of feel sad for the ones that used to tell me that one way or another. A friend of mine at SU believes that if Obama is able to revoke/remove the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy in the military, it will come down to something "you wouldn't disown those that fought for your country, would you?" It's possible.
Another point about the "good of the children thing." A speaker, Linda Gordon, came to our school to present her talk, "What's Wrong with Putting Children First?" As you can probably tell from the title, she had many interesting viewpoints on case-studies where putting children first is not always the best for a society. Taken with a grain of salt, as she had a very neutral standpoint.
All in all, good journal - I enjoyed reading it!
I'm not familiar with Gordon, but having Googled her she seems pretty interesting (though at first I ran into one Linda Gordon, real estate agent, whom I assumed wasn't the right one).
Although Gordon might sell real estate in her free time, I meant this person: http://history.fas.nyu.edu/object/lindagordon
The more I think about the issue, the more the word "misinformation" pops into mind...
I don't even pretend to understand the boondoggle we're in right now with the real estate crunch, except to say that it seems like a whole lot of people who should have known better kind of chose to ignore reality on the assumption that everything would work out wonderfully, somehow. :P
I was shared this video and think you might like it: http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=W4xfMisqab8
Don't Ask Don't Tell was gonna be my first attempt.