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If I block you....

12 years ago General

.... Please do NOT try to message me on an alt account... :I

If I block you it is for a good reason. I will just block that one too. It serves no purpose to message me from an alt account in hopes of reaching me. It just pisses me off and causes more harm than good...

I want certain people out of my life for a lot of reasons. Those that negatively hurt me or those I love and care for I want out of my life completely.

I tried to continue to be some of these people's friend but knew it was a mistake... blocking the negativity out of my life is the only way I can truly be sane and happy.

Please respect this. If you are one of these people, then do not expect me to just magically message you back if I have you blocked on another account.

Just move on with your life and try to correct yourselves. Just leave me out of it.... :I

28 Comments

Corgii ~corgii

Anthro Artist

12 years ago

Sorry this is happening to you :( If you didn't know, block evasion is considered harassment and you can notify an admin about it!

~Snow~ ~~snow~

Fursuiter

12 years ago

It was not really harassment just stirring trouble by spreading rumors (which I know are not true) to cause problems between my friends and I. That kinda BS. One of the types that makes you feel bad for them so... yeah... >_> I just prefer to block. If they make yet another account then I will report.

Corgii ~corgii

Anthro Artist

12 years ago

Yeah. I just meant it's actually against the ToS of FA for them to do that :> So you have every reason to be able to report them if you'd like to ~

~Snow~ ~~snow~

Fursuiter

12 years ago

I know what you mean I am just going to ignore them though. I do not stir trouble unless it is really needed. They won't succeed though so no worries. ^^

Demiphoenix ~foxfury

12 years ago

I do the same thing. I hate when people continue to try and talk when I want nothing more to do with them. :/ I remember a case got so bad I had to change my phone number and only give it to people I know I can trust with it T^T

~Snow~ ~~snow~

Fursuiter

12 years ago

D: Ouch I am so sorry this happened to you! >_< I hope it never gets that bad with me with anyone. I need to call block them too though still.... :I Too many people (potential jobs, etc.) have my no. so I cannot afford to change it :I

Demiphoenix ~foxfury

12 years ago

its the worst thing ever.. I hope you have a number block on your phone. because the last time I had that happen the person call/text bomed me to get a hold of my friend which was also trying to avoid the dude >.>

~Snow~ ~~snow~

Fursuiter

12 years ago

D: Yeah that is kinda what happened with me. My friends wanted away from this person, and so do I.... and they have been trying to talk to me to get to other people. Or to spread shit about the other friends that also blocked them and ATTEMPT to make me feel sorry for them.... :I Tired of it.

~Snow~ ~~snow~

Fursuiter

12 years ago

And I have a block on my phone that sends the number straight to VM. But they can still text... I can perma block through Verizon's site though. But it is only for 90 days then the no. is released. Ya have to readd the number if you wanna keep blocking them.

Jerome-Kai ~jerome-kai

Anthro Artist

12 years ago

thankfully i have no alt accounts on FA but people will hit me up on Facebook and Skype and ask why i blocked them and would i unblock them. normally i would but now since i have been hurt so many times and lied to im less forgiving now.

~Snow~ ~~snow~

Fursuiter

12 years ago

^ Same. I have been hurt and lied to by so many people. People that came back and tried to pull the 'let me prove to you I am innocent' with no real solid proof, and to just have more lies and bullshit thrown my way, or for them to just be lying in the end. Sadly I know two people like this person that PM'd me, but they are the most persistent... at least the other person finally gave up.

Jerome-Kai ~jerome-kai

Anthro Artist

12 years ago

ya i get that too. im sorry that such nice furs like you are harassed snow.

MarshmallowBunni ~marshmallowbunni

12 years ago

;3;

lonesadwolf ~lonesadwolf

Fursuiter

12 years ago

sorry that such nice furs like you are harassed

JohnStripedfur ~johnstripedfur

Movie Reviewer

12 years ago

Sorry to hear what's going on.

Closetfur1 ~closetfur1

Photographer

12 years ago

I am curious, If someone does something to you, do you message them as to why you are no longer affiliating with them? Reason I am asking, I had someone I thought was my friend, UnContact me on Skype, then went over to FA, and unfollowed me there as well, ans I still have no idea. Or are you talking about people who obviously are doing something to cause real problems. If I had received some notification, It might not hurt so much. What are your thoughts?
Thanks,
CEF
I am sorry there are folks hurting you, though. People who hurt others on purpose, should face the consequences!

Mr_Pickleman ~mrpickleman

Anthro Artist

12 years ago

I'm wondering this myself. I've actually been blocked by a few users with almost ZERO interaction on my part. (In one case, I never conversed with the guy and only found out I had been blocked when I tried to comment on one of his submissions.)

~Snow~ ~~snow~

Fursuiter

12 years ago

The person knew what they did in the past. While I tried to remain civil with them I decided it best to just no longer associate with them and block them. Granted I did not say I was blocking them but I felt it best to just not say anything to not cause any "drama."

I do not know if I should have said anything or not but at the time felt it best to just block without making it clear I was... :I

Closetfur1 ~closetfur1

Photographer

12 years ago

Okay! Thank You! Just voicing my thoughts. Thanks for responding,! :)

~Snow~ ~~snow~

Fursuiter

12 years ago

Should I have said to them I was blocking them? My friends told me to just block and stop talking to the person (without saying a word) but IDK if I did the right thing? :I

Closetfur1 ~closetfur1

Photographer

12 years ago

Probably so. In this case, you know already, they know, they have been doing things they shouldn't have. You were right, avoiding more drama.
*hugs* Thanks!
CEF

Closetfur1 ~closetfur1

Photographer

12 years ago

Sorry, that wasn't very clear... Your decision not to contact them sounds right, to me..

~Snow~ ~~snow~

Fursuiter

12 years ago

What prompted me to block them is when the people I love the most got hurt by them. This person tried using me to get in touch with them. Was nice to me but was saying stuff about them and trying to use me as intel...

Closetfur1 ~closetfur1

Photographer

12 years ago

I agree 100% I would definately bite anyone, who messes with my pack. I appreciate, you being candid with me. I have decided, if i didn't do anything wrong, if it should heal, it will. If not, I will just deal with it, and miss them.
You are a very good person. And I hate it when someone tries to stick me in the middle of something like that...

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Aviet ~aviet

Artist

12 years ago

I'm so sorry this sort of thing is happening to you. I hope everything gets figured out soon here for you. :<

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