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Well...family member's terminally ill.....
12 years ago
All input is appreciated! My God mother has been struggling with a tumor wrapped around a major artery on her pancreas for almost a year now. It's inoperable, and she keeps filling up with fluid in her abdomen. Today I found out that she went back to the hospital and they drained her again, but this time, they sent her home to die. They offered hospice care, but my God parents, being the very private couple they are, declined the offer for hospice care. Now she's going to spend the last bit of her life at home, trying to prepare for her passing and preparing others in the family as well. I have been very close to my God parents for a long while, and they have been there for me since the day I was born...I can't imagine what it's going to be like without her... I don't know how my God father's going to cope, either... This is a hard time for me, being autistic (Aspergers) and having to take meds for mood swings(anger and depression for me), and I really don't know what I'm going to do... They've always been so nice and caring for everyone, they're funny, they've always trusted me and I've always trusted them... I just.... I don't know... Maybe it's just time to stop.... I just feel horrible right now.... I'm gonna go now.... 
KeystoneDragon
~keystonedragon
Reminds me of what my mom went through... man... I'm sorry you are having to go through this. I pray she isn't in great pain. *gently leans into you and pulls you to his scales, holding you near*
lucario10135
~lucario10135
OP
Yea.... I thought about that as well. I don't think she's in any real pain. If she is, she's not telling anyone about it. *puts an arm around you and hugs*
KeystoneDragon
~keystonedragon
I suppose that is something, at least... *hugs his friend gently*
lucario10135
~lucario10135
OP
Yea...I guess *hugs back*
