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12 years ago
Kiss me once and I will surely melt and die
My lovely husband lost his wallet tonight. It had about 4400$ in it... on the way to pay some bills and put the rest away.. he lost his wallet somewhere.. we retraced all his steps, asked at every single place he went.. no one has seen it or at least is admitting they saw it.. and no one has turned it in.. We filed a police lost item report but they won't even get back to us about the report for 10 days.
That was everything we had.. bills didn't get paid, money was lost.. and i don't assume anyone would be kind enough to return it.. i'm just so upset it hurts. I kept telling him that he should never carry over 100$ in cash with him.. I had no idea he had that much at the time... Why he put it all in his wallet like that is beyond me, but now it's gone.
I've searched the car, every single place he parked and everywhere he went for work, except the office parking lot which is behind a gate at the moment. He swears there is no way it came out of the car after he got in the last time.. that's my only hope left otherwise our utilities and power will be shut off before his next check.
And of course no one at the places we went to have found it or have admitted to finding it... Can someone just make this pain go away? it seems like at least once a week i have to deal with something earth shattering, so upsetting that my little heart wants to give out... with very little up side to much of it...
I don't do the things for others because i expect some sort of instant karma, i don't help others without question so that i get something in return or so that they will owe me.. i do it because i'm a good person.. Because i hope that some day, if i help enough.. someone else will start to help.. and it will no longer be such a weird thing to help someone because you can.. not because of a return.. if even for just a week, i got to live without heartbreak.. it would be amazing...
I posted a craigslist ad for the wallet.. but i don't think it will help... Even if i am willing to reward handsomely... compared to what was in it.. what's the point..
That was everything we had.. bills didn't get paid, money was lost.. and i don't assume anyone would be kind enough to return it.. i'm just so upset it hurts. I kept telling him that he should never carry over 100$ in cash with him.. I had no idea he had that much at the time... Why he put it all in his wallet like that is beyond me, but now it's gone.
I've searched the car, every single place he parked and everywhere he went for work, except the office parking lot which is behind a gate at the moment. He swears there is no way it came out of the car after he got in the last time.. that's my only hope left otherwise our utilities and power will be shut off before his next check.
And of course no one at the places we went to have found it or have admitted to finding it... Can someone just make this pain go away? it seems like at least once a week i have to deal with something earth shattering, so upsetting that my little heart wants to give out... with very little up side to much of it...
I don't do the things for others because i expect some sort of instant karma, i don't help others without question so that i get something in return or so that they will owe me.. i do it because i'm a good person.. Because i hope that some day, if i help enough.. someone else will start to help.. and it will no longer be such a weird thing to help someone because you can.. not because of a return.. if even for just a week, i got to live without heartbreak.. it would be amazing...
I posted a craigslist ad for the wallet.. but i don't think it will help... Even if i am willing to reward handsomely... compared to what was in it.. what's the point..
Again tho I'll keep my fingers crossed and keep you two in my best wishes that things go positively for ya. *Hug*
I even went into Kohls and checked the racks with the wallets to see if some poor person thought it was a new one and put it on the shelf thinking they were picking up a product that fell.. no luck there though..
I have no idea what made him consider carrying that much money.. even when i have to pay a bill i try to not carry more than 200 max on my person.. He was apparently trying to be secretive and do some christmas shopping for me and thought he should do that while waiting on a tech he was supposed to help for work.. of course he never found anything to buy and ended up going to help the guy... He swears it had to have fallen out while going to the bathroom.. but i saw the bathroom.. if he was washing his hands.. *I FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS HOLY HOPE HE WASHED HIS HANDS* would figure he'd look down at his hands and see it next to him as he keeps it in his right pocket always.. but he says he didn't see anything..
My last effort and hope is that it's somehow at his office either in the lot behind a gate or in the office safe. Our power will be off before his next check.. and phones and utilities.. at this point. i'm so far beyond hoping this works out and just flat ass refuse to give up looking. His calmness about it really really bothers me.. i want to scream and he's rather calm.
If your eyes are bugging you at the moment though hun perhaps you should lay down and rest them :( I figure you wont be able to fall asleep but even just laying there would help make them feel better some :O