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I'm Gay + other news
12 years ago
Oh gosh. Uhm. Yeah. Let's go with that.
For years I've been declaring that I'm Bi, and have only been in relationships with girls (except maybe one short online relationship a while ago). I might not be 100% gay. I'm not saying I don't have any attraction towards you girls. But I'm less interested in a relationship with them. And for those of you who don't already know I'm in a gay relationship now :P
<3
<3
I realized lately though, that I have mostly been attracted to guys. And that my either my preferences changed very slowly over the years, or perhaps I have always felt this way and never allowed myself to realize it. I am, shall we say, rather nervous about how people perceive me. Always have been, so admitting I am gay, or at the very least bi, is always hard for me.
So yeah. Why not tell the community of people who already accept that, and quite a few who already think I am haha :3
In other news:
It's likely I will be taking a commission or two sometime next month. (and I mean literally only one or two) At least at a time. Either that or perhaps a your-character-here auction. Not sure yet. Anyways, if and when I do get around to being able to do so, I will be running it a bit differently than I have in the past, so instead of either a waitlist or first come first serve, it'd just be a free for all and I'd pick the ones I'd wanna do! Just a heads up really! I'll have more info when the time comes. :3
Cheers! And Happy Holidays!
For years I've been declaring that I'm Bi, and have only been in relationships with girls (except maybe one short online relationship a while ago). I might not be 100% gay. I'm not saying I don't have any attraction towards you girls. But I'm less interested in a relationship with them. And for those of you who don't already know I'm in a gay relationship now :P
<3
<3 I realized lately though, that I have mostly been attracted to guys. And that my either my preferences changed very slowly over the years, or perhaps I have always felt this way and never allowed myself to realize it. I am, shall we say, rather nervous about how people perceive me. Always have been, so admitting I am gay, or at the very least bi, is always hard for me.
So yeah. Why not tell the community of people who already accept that, and quite a few who already think I am haha :3
In other news:
It's likely I will be taking a commission or two sometime next month. (and I mean literally only one or two) At least at a time. Either that or perhaps a your-character-here auction. Not sure yet. Anyways, if and when I do get around to being able to do so, I will be running it a bit differently than I have in the past, so instead of either a waitlist or first come first serve, it'd just be a free for all and I'd pick the ones I'd wanna do! Just a heads up really! I'll have more info when the time comes. :3
Cheers! And Happy Holidays!
True true :D
...PS: ~Pyrferno~ HAAA.. GHEY!... well you know, otters gotta ott!
:D
And an otter ain't doing their job unless they be getting stuffed :P
and ofcourse thats what ottahs do. its based on highly research and true facts. also those icons are super adorable.
and gosh thanks! My bf got them!
And i bet you did make the pie chartS!
Also, text me
pff
gosh well thanks :3
Anyway, I'm happy that you're starting to understand yourself better, it's not always easy, and congratulations!
But thanks!
I love both sexes and it's really really hard to commit to just one, I'm greedy. xp
Have you ever been physically gay? If not you might just be curious.
haha yes I have. Well. Only a little bit. but I did like it. I certainly liked certain things *cough* but I'll have an opportunity to do more soon enough hehe
pff
Except replace Bi with Straight and replace gay with BI
tho...to be honest the more and more I think about it...I'm probably full gay and not bi :\
(which the idea of still greatly bugs me)
My issue comes from having a half VERY conserative family and the other half DESPERATELY wants me to have kids/get married as i'm the only male heir of that line of the family.
Also doesn't help I find most flaming gay guys EXTREMELY annoying and off-putting and i link that behavior with being gay.
I always assumed you were at least bi :P
I just refused to admit I liked guys foreeeever.
Nah I get what you are saying. Who knows. Maybe in 10 years I'll be somewhat bi again. hahah
I'm still not 100% sure. But I feel like right now I am. :3
Tis true. I tend to like people more for who they are. But then again, I do like certain features on guys :P
Besides, love knows no gender!
Tis true! I tend to like people for who they are first anyways. Just something about guys that I like a little more hahaha
Also...im jealous of your BF! >:|
hehe congrats man
I am jealous of him too! He is quite lovely after all
But maybe I'm just reading in this too deep.
Either way man, gratz on being yourself.
So its more so lack of proper knowledge than lazyness :P
Pfft thanks though!
Best wishes ^.^
I promise not to spam your journal anymore..maybe
Spam! where? It's gross to look at, but damn if it doesn't taste good!
although i wanted to say, human sexuality is complicated that way. sometimes we need to do allot of experimenting, and even then some of us are unsure, while others know right away.
And congrats
Pfft! Thanks :3
I went through the same thing you did, mostly relationships with girls then I got a bf and wham! the floodgates opened.
You'll have to drag him to Athens sometime so we all can hang. ...even though I'm graduated now... NEVER TOO LATE FOR A HOMECOMING! X3
We should though! =3
So are you moving out of athens?
Yeah. I'm back home in Dacula with my parents, and I got myself a job doing graphics at a company in Lawrenceville. Athens is only 40 minutes away. That's nothing, so I can always go back~ =3
Oh shoot dude! I'm like 20 away from Lawrenceville! Well when I have work that is! I'm like right near little 5 points, and on saturdays I'm over on the east edge of 285 right near 78! Haha
Which way is dacula?
We should all make something happen sometime~ =3
Me, I still don't know. IRL I'm kinda "not interested in anyone at the moment", in furry-fantasy world leaning much more gay than bi gimme time to figure it out, I'm a late bloomer.
that's somewhat how I was. I don't think I've looked at straight porn in so long I can't even remember hahaha :3
But hey, it took me forever to get as far as I've come so I suppose I'm a late bloomer as well
I still like women to an extent. But I don't think I want to pursue a relationship with them any more. Hah well whatever! I'm just happy to be with a guy now.
From 14 to 21 I was fairly sure I was 'gay' for the most part I was just after boys. Now mind you my criteria for who I thought was attractive was almost entirely abnormal and if you message me at some point and want to talk we can. But lables, gay, strait, bi, come with daft expectations that you should never confine yourself to. I'm in a relationship that I could comfortably call bi, strait, or gay by any number of ways of assigning the labels.
I support your choice as someone who loves to see happy people in this world, just be careful how you accept labels.
Regardless. Ott's gotta ott!
Hit me up for a chat some time.
JR aka Triss
Hehe but sure! We should chat? If you got a skype note it to me :3
I had a similar situation, and denied myself. I had a girlfriend for 5 years after college and she was a nightmare, but made me realize what I initially liked in her, and what I look for in a partner. (she couldn't even say "I love you" for like 4 of those 5 years when I said it and meant it all the time) Well, you find happiness with the right person, and it can just click. I opened up to myself about who I was, and yeah... I found a cute, amazing guy. <3
Sorry to talk your ear (eyes?) off, just wanted to let you know that some of us really can relate and we're behind you 100%.
Thanks much! :3