Father Contusion (FC)
12 years ago
General
Hotel
The Marriott! GOSH
Sharing a room with
Friendlyfox, Special Bats and um....somebody else whose name escapes me (which is awful because its somebody I'm pretty sure I'm friends with D: )
Who do you hang out with?
Drunken ne'er-do-wells. I usually do hang out with my "clique" but usually there's at least a big block of time devoted to complete strangers. Its almost a con tradition where I end up making a new friend(s) and wandering around with him/her for at least a part of the day.
Gender
OK Dude
Preference
OK Dudes
Relationship Status
easy like a sunday morning
How old are you?
1,000
How tall are you?
5'10. Gosh, what a weird question.
Are you an Artist?
No-ish
Attending parties?
Oh gosh yes. I'm the Portland partyfox
Do you drink alcohol?
:>
Can I buy you a drink?
Mmm-hmm
Do you smoke?
I generally have a few at cons, though last Rainfurrest I only had like maybe two or three cigarettes so maybe not.
Are you attending any panels?
Likely not. Not really a panel guy usually unless I'm somehow involved with it or the people running it
Stage or public performance?
Nothing planned but sometimes I get involved in strange public displays
How do I identify my self to you?
Just say 'Hi' and tell me your name. Please don't do the coy 'try to guess who I am thing.' Its no longer cute and wastes my time and I just end up annoyed. Sorry. Also, unless you have a REALLY identifiable fursuit, they all tend to look the same to me so don't get too mad if I have to look at your badge to remember who you are or look a little distressed at this seeming random fursuit I'm unsure of hugging on me.
Rules of engagement (physical contact: hugs, cuddles, etc..)?
I like all these things, but I'm not too fond of way long hugs and cuddles unless I'm way comfortable with you. Its okay to test out that comfort level, though, 'cos I'll just squirm away if I'm not about it without being mad or anything, unless you get WAY insistent or interrupt a conversation I'm in by tugging me into your lap (i'm sure i've blogged about this before but its a huge pet peeve of mine)
How can I find you?
Text me or somebody I know. I'm really hecka free about giving out my phone number so if you're going to be there and want it then I'll likely just give it to you. I would just publicly, in fact, but that seems a little brazen I guess 'cos I have a stalker issue.
Can I talk to you?
Yes! I am extremely conversational. If I'm stone cold sober or its before 5pm, there IS a chance that I'll be a little quiet or shy if I don't know you at all or very well. After a couple cocktails and other things I generally pep right up and TALK a lot. I can sometimes be a bit esoteric in my conversation topics but I try to dial it back.
Can I give you lots of money?
NO NEVER DO THAT EVER :C
Can I give you stuff?
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Can I come to dinner with you?
you can ask. I might say yes! I'm trying to not eat out this year by bringing some food and snax.
Can I hang out with you?
Yeah! Just don't push me to do con stuff outside of drink and socialize
Can I take your picture?
No problem, friend!
How do I know if you're not looking to socialize (angry, busy or upset)?
After some awkward hemming and hawing, I'll generally tell you in the first and third instance. The middle one I sometimes forget myself and take the passive aggressive route of borderline ignoring people until they go away. Sorry, I'm working on it!
Personality Type?
Neurotic, overthinker. I refuse to fucking give any credence to that Myers-Briggs nonsense.
What's your goal for the con this year?
Rekindle some friendships I've let die, hopefully get to know some of my Internet friends better, not get too drunk, and maybe smooch a cute dude or two.
The Marriott! GOSH
Sharing a room with
Friendlyfox, Special Bats and um....somebody else whose name escapes me (which is awful because its somebody I'm pretty sure I'm friends with D: )
Who do you hang out with?
Drunken ne'er-do-wells. I usually do hang out with my "clique" but usually there's at least a big block of time devoted to complete strangers. Its almost a con tradition where I end up making a new friend(s) and wandering around with him/her for at least a part of the day.
Gender
OK Dude
Preference
OK Dudes
Relationship Status
easy like a sunday morning
How old are you?
1,000
How tall are you?
5'10. Gosh, what a weird question.
Are you an Artist?
No-ish
Attending parties?
Oh gosh yes. I'm the Portland partyfox
Do you drink alcohol?
:>
Can I buy you a drink?
Mmm-hmm
Do you smoke?
I generally have a few at cons, though last Rainfurrest I only had like maybe two or three cigarettes so maybe not.
Are you attending any panels?
Likely not. Not really a panel guy usually unless I'm somehow involved with it or the people running it
Stage or public performance?
Nothing planned but sometimes I get involved in strange public displays
How do I identify my self to you?
Just say 'Hi' and tell me your name. Please don't do the coy 'try to guess who I am thing.' Its no longer cute and wastes my time and I just end up annoyed. Sorry. Also, unless you have a REALLY identifiable fursuit, they all tend to look the same to me so don't get too mad if I have to look at your badge to remember who you are or look a little distressed at this seeming random fursuit I'm unsure of hugging on me.
Rules of engagement (physical contact: hugs, cuddles, etc..)?
I like all these things, but I'm not too fond of way long hugs and cuddles unless I'm way comfortable with you. Its okay to test out that comfort level, though, 'cos I'll just squirm away if I'm not about it without being mad or anything, unless you get WAY insistent or interrupt a conversation I'm in by tugging me into your lap (i'm sure i've blogged about this before but its a huge pet peeve of mine)
How can I find you?
Text me or somebody I know. I'm really hecka free about giving out my phone number so if you're going to be there and want it then I'll likely just give it to you. I would just publicly, in fact, but that seems a little brazen I guess 'cos I have a stalker issue.
Can I talk to you?
Yes! I am extremely conversational. If I'm stone cold sober or its before 5pm, there IS a chance that I'll be a little quiet or shy if I don't know you at all or very well. After a couple cocktails and other things I generally pep right up and TALK a lot. I can sometimes be a bit esoteric in my conversation topics but I try to dial it back.
Can I give you lots of money?
NO NEVER DO THAT EVER :C
Can I give you stuff?
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Can I come to dinner with you?
you can ask. I might say yes! I'm trying to not eat out this year by bringing some food and snax.
Can I hang out with you?
Yeah! Just don't push me to do con stuff outside of drink and socialize
Can I take your picture?
No problem, friend!
How do I know if you're not looking to socialize (angry, busy or upset)?
After some awkward hemming and hawing, I'll generally tell you in the first and third instance. The middle one I sometimes forget myself and take the passive aggressive route of borderline ignoring people until they go away. Sorry, I'm working on it!
Personality Type?
Neurotic, overthinker. I refuse to fucking give any credence to that Myers-Briggs nonsense.
What's your goal for the con this year?
Rekindle some friendships I've let die, hopefully get to know some of my Internet friends better, not get too drunk, and maybe smooch a cute dude or two.
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