when shit gets shittier, please help
12 years ago
Well, what a way to open a new year journal.
this is a plea for assistance from the furry community.
I myself have gotten into a little financial trouble in the last few months and in helping a "friend", i now owe him £450... which he knew i couldn't afford to pay back any time soon.
The story is, he was moving out of his place and needed his stuff gone, i was just moving into my new place, didn't need any of the stuff but to help him out, i bought it from him on a pay back later deal. that was 3 months ago. i bought all the furniture etc for £600, fully furnished my flat, happy days, and my "friend" didn't loose out on having to take his crap to the dump...
now it turns nasty, today he has given me an ultimatum. 6 weeks to find £450..
heres the fall... i am lucky to have £4.50 at the end of the month after rent, bills, commuting to and from work, food, dog, insurance etc etc etc.
I hate doing this cus it makes me feel like a total knob. its a place i have never been in my life and hope never to end up again. but i am praying for perhaps a little donation from people to help me get out of this mess before "he breaks my fucking legs" which he will.. hes that kinda guy.
If people are willing to help, please note me. I will do anything to re-pay, except art cus i suck and would feel worse for giving you shoddy artwork, but i do write, nothing on here yet but i do alot of writing. Or, i can offer to pay back as and when i can.
thank you for taking your time to read a plead for help from a dumb ass wolf.
this is a plea for assistance from the furry community.
I myself have gotten into a little financial trouble in the last few months and in helping a "friend", i now owe him £450... which he knew i couldn't afford to pay back any time soon.
The story is, he was moving out of his place and needed his stuff gone, i was just moving into my new place, didn't need any of the stuff but to help him out, i bought it from him on a pay back later deal. that was 3 months ago. i bought all the furniture etc for £600, fully furnished my flat, happy days, and my "friend" didn't loose out on having to take his crap to the dump...
now it turns nasty, today he has given me an ultimatum. 6 weeks to find £450..
heres the fall... i am lucky to have £4.50 at the end of the month after rent, bills, commuting to and from work, food, dog, insurance etc etc etc.
I hate doing this cus it makes me feel like a total knob. its a place i have never been in my life and hope never to end up again. but i am praying for perhaps a little donation from people to help me get out of this mess before "he breaks my fucking legs" which he will.. hes that kinda guy.
If people are willing to help, please note me. I will do anything to re-pay, except art cus i suck and would feel worse for giving you shoddy artwork, but i do write, nothing on here yet but i do alot of writing. Or, i can offer to pay back as and when i can.
thank you for taking your time to read a plead for help from a dumb ass wolf.
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which is why i am trying to just repay.
Over here the police would act as mediators to make sure the goods are returned and that he threatens you no more. They would give him a caution and if he threatens you again you can have him arrested.
From what I have seen on Judge Judy you can go to the police about this and they can mediate and make sure he gets his things back and leaves you alone.
I think with the police you just have to explain the situation calmly as possible and tell them that you fear that this person intends to do harm and give examples of actions that make you believe he has intent. Usually the intent is enough to have them act.