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Deleting a Person
12 years ago
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I am fine with people leaving me as I am use to it.
When told why, I am even more okay with it.
That is because I see no point in fighting for people who want to be "fought" for.
When things are said like "I am nice enough to tell you I am deleting you" already is being stuck up. Yes it is nice, but that's like telling a person pointing a gun at you "I am gonna call the cops". You don't say it unless you WANT the person to do something to you to prevent it.
Will talk with the person for a bit to understand their reasoning. If something like "you haven't talked to me in [insert time amount]" then I will say "what stopped you from talking?" If I have to be the one to always get you to talk to me, which is what I perceive that as, and you don't care enough to talk on your own, then you don't see me as enough of a friend to talk to.
So yes, I know about my flaws that will drive people away, but I will not feel bad when people do such things as listed above or cry and say "will do anything if you just stay". To be brutally honest, things listed above tickle my sadism because it's showing how much of a desperate fool they must be and though I will feel bad that they must feel alone or sad to say that, to me, if feel they are as lazy and an air of arrogance to make such statements, I will just snicker behind my screen as the foolishness it will seem to me.
Friendship is a two way row. One shouldn't be the constant starter of things, especially if it is online.
If this journal has pissed anybody off, then I am sorry, but I am being honest, which so many people say they want from their friends and other important people.
When told why, I am even more okay with it.
That is because I see no point in fighting for people who want to be "fought" for.
When things are said like "I am nice enough to tell you I am deleting you" already is being stuck up. Yes it is nice, but that's like telling a person pointing a gun at you "I am gonna call the cops". You don't say it unless you WANT the person to do something to you to prevent it.
Will talk with the person for a bit to understand their reasoning. If something like "you haven't talked to me in [insert time amount]" then I will say "what stopped you from talking?" If I have to be the one to always get you to talk to me, which is what I perceive that as, and you don't care enough to talk on your own, then you don't see me as enough of a friend to talk to.
So yes, I know about my flaws that will drive people away, but I will not feel bad when people do such things as listed above or cry and say "will do anything if you just stay". To be brutally honest, things listed above tickle my sadism because it's showing how much of a desperate fool they must be and though I will feel bad that they must feel alone or sad to say that, to me, if feel they are as lazy and an air of arrogance to make such statements, I will just snicker behind my screen as the foolishness it will seem to me.
Friendship is a two way row. One shouldn't be the constant starter of things, especially if it is online.
If this journal has pissed anybody off, then I am sorry, but I am being honest, which so many people say they want from their friends and other important people.
But that seems to be the majority of people.