FA+
Shop
After the New Year! Moved AGAIN, friend drama and snowy days
12 years ago
General
Hey everyone! A lot has happened in the last year! If some of you recall I moved last year in May to a new apartment. Well, I just moved AGAIN to a new crib in Germantown, MD from my apartment in Rockville, MD. Boy was it a hassle!
We moved Friday, 1/24/14, and luckily my dad helped with the funds for the moving van. However, I lost my security deposit due to having to have 2 months and not 1 month prior move out notice, plus $1758 for the moving out fee for my old apartment, and $2380+ the $250 deposit fee at the new place, and of course the fees for the application which were also over $200.
I was in the hole about 6k between the moving. Granted I do have some money (not a lot) in my savings but seeing it drop like crazy just hits hard. I am spending all this money so my boyfriend, friends and I can all live happily together. Right now I am the only one supporting 3 of us. Two more will be moving in with us later - my friend SyCo on Feb. 1st but she will have a job since she can transfer from her Walmart to one not too far from here. :3 I do not mind right now but in the end it will start to affect me over time... I cannot do this all on my own. I do not have the funds/money to keep doing this in the long run and that savings will run out. My boyfriend and his friend who also moved in with us are working hard though to find jobs so I am hoping they can sooner than later. :3 And my friend
sycoskunk is luckily able to transfer her job over so that will help a lot money wise. I must say I am excited to be in the new place! Aside from a scratched table and my friend's car getting towed all went well. My friend's car got towed since she came by to stay at our old apartment for one night and the towing company came and towed her car. I paid to get it back for her.
I also had a car accident earlier in the month that has had my car in the shop for 2-3 weeks. The car should be finished today. And while I LOVE my rental (it is a Ford Taurus 2014, and it is sick!) I still miss my baby - my Lexus IS250 AWD. A car side swiped me in a parking garage when I was already committed to a turn - they were going up I was going down. I saw them after I was around the turn, saw they were coming and as the turns are not the widest to turn I stopped in case they didn't. They kept coming and tore off the front left fender under the headlight and around to the front left tire. I am also dipping in $1500 myself to get my hood replaced from a natural disaster incident during a terrible thunderstorm which caused Tornados in the area. Lightning struck a tree when I had my car parked in a parking lot when I was at a doctor's apt. in Rockville, and a branch hit my car and dented the hood. The hood has to be replaced and repainted.
There has also been a lot of drama with friends in real life that is slowly getting to me. The move and the money has been stressful, but drama has been unfolding between a few of the parties moving in. Stuff being said behind people's backs from at least one of them, and my tolerance is getting low. I understand I am not perfect, but if you have a problem with me please come to me directly and do not say crap about me behind my back. I see this as the lowest of low and no real friend will do this. I know certain people who have done this to me and others I care about. If it continues then it will get worse than just this post and I won't stand for it happening to me and certainly not to those I love and care about.
Not to mention, some things I said either got construed or they blatantly lied about something I said. So this is to everyone: do not twist around or confuse words I say or lie about something I never said. If you are confused about something I said just ask me and I will clarify! Starting to get tired of this shiz.... And I do not believe in this crap so anything you say to me about someone else will get told to them because I hate lies and secrecy and people being two faced.
That aside I am happier about the move and having all of my close friends together! I cannot wait for SyCo to move in and to get everyone else here. :) I am sure things will look up once we are all together, working, and then things will look up. :)
Also we had a LOT of snow days this month! Once earlier in the month where I got to take pics of me in the Snow (pics are in my gallery c:), and it was so much fun going out in suit in the snow! It kept me warm but I could slowly feel the cool wind going through the suit lol. And snow last week closed the base for two days. :D
We moved Friday, 1/24/14, and luckily my dad helped with the funds for the moving van. However, I lost my security deposit due to having to have 2 months and not 1 month prior move out notice, plus $1758 for the moving out fee for my old apartment, and $2380+ the $250 deposit fee at the new place, and of course the fees for the application which were also over $200.
I was in the hole about 6k between the moving. Granted I do have some money (not a lot) in my savings but seeing it drop like crazy just hits hard. I am spending all this money so my boyfriend, friends and I can all live happily together. Right now I am the only one supporting 3 of us. Two more will be moving in with us later - my friend SyCo on Feb. 1st but she will have a job since she can transfer from her Walmart to one not too far from here. :3 I do not mind right now but in the end it will start to affect me over time... I cannot do this all on my own. I do not have the funds/money to keep doing this in the long run and that savings will run out. My boyfriend and his friend who also moved in with us are working hard though to find jobs so I am hoping they can sooner than later. :3 And my friend
sycoskunk is luckily able to transfer her job over so that will help a lot money wise. I must say I am excited to be in the new place! Aside from a scratched table and my friend's car getting towed all went well. My friend's car got towed since she came by to stay at our old apartment for one night and the towing company came and towed her car. I paid to get it back for her.I also had a car accident earlier in the month that has had my car in the shop for 2-3 weeks. The car should be finished today. And while I LOVE my rental (it is a Ford Taurus 2014, and it is sick!) I still miss my baby - my Lexus IS250 AWD. A car side swiped me in a parking garage when I was already committed to a turn - they were going up I was going down. I saw them after I was around the turn, saw they were coming and as the turns are not the widest to turn I stopped in case they didn't. They kept coming and tore off the front left fender under the headlight and around to the front left tire. I am also dipping in $1500 myself to get my hood replaced from a natural disaster incident during a terrible thunderstorm which caused Tornados in the area. Lightning struck a tree when I had my car parked in a parking lot when I was at a doctor's apt. in Rockville, and a branch hit my car and dented the hood. The hood has to be replaced and repainted.
There has also been a lot of drama with friends in real life that is slowly getting to me. The move and the money has been stressful, but drama has been unfolding between a few of the parties moving in. Stuff being said behind people's backs from at least one of them, and my tolerance is getting low. I understand I am not perfect, but if you have a problem with me please come to me directly and do not say crap about me behind my back. I see this as the lowest of low and no real friend will do this. I know certain people who have done this to me and others I care about. If it continues then it will get worse than just this post and I won't stand for it happening to me and certainly not to those I love and care about.
Not to mention, some things I said either got construed or they blatantly lied about something I said. So this is to everyone: do not twist around or confuse words I say or lie about something I never said. If you are confused about something I said just ask me and I will clarify! Starting to get tired of this shiz.... And I do not believe in this crap so anything you say to me about someone else will get told to them because I hate lies and secrecy and people being two faced.
That aside I am happier about the move and having all of my close friends together! I cannot wait for SyCo to move in and to get everyone else here. :) I am sure things will look up once we are all together, working, and then things will look up. :)
Also we had a LOT of snow days this month! Once earlier in the month where I got to take pics of me in the Snow (pics are in my gallery c:), and it was so much fun going out in suit in the snow! It kept me warm but I could slowly feel the cool wind going through the suit lol. And snow last week closed the base for two days. :D
Oh and as for the taxes I still have to do that >_> It will likely have to be tomorrow or the next day though since I may have to leave early to pick up my car today, which should be finished! I miss my car ;0;
Maybe we can also collab together once you move in and we can sell art together. :D
you have a good day and hope things work put for yoy