Valentine's Meme
11 years ago
1:Do you have a crush at the moment?
Only on my mai'sina'o (my lifemates).
Towards anyone else, no.
2:Have you ever been deeply in love?
With my mai'sina'o and only my mai'sina.
3:Longest relationship you've ever been in?
With my mai'sina'o for thousands of years being reincarnated into new human lives over and over again. But back home I've been with them for a couple of years though I grew up with them in the Capital where we were taught our duties as a priestess (me), Seer (Kieran/Azarian) and a Warrior/Protector (Cole/Kaias).
4:Have you ever changed for someone?
Nope. I've never needed to change for them. They love me for me.
5:How is your relationship with your ex?
Never had an ex since they are my first and only mai'sina'o.
6:Have you ever been cheated on?
Nope. They are devoted to me and I am to them.
7:Have you ever cheated?
Nope. Again, I am solely devoted to them.
8:Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
Nope. I would only date my mai'sina'o.
9:What's the most important part of a relationship?
Being able to be oneself around my mai'sina'o and they accepting me for me and I accepting them for them.
Being trustworthy and honest and loyal as well.
10:Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
I only do a serious relationship with my mai'sina'o.
11:When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
Nope. We don't have such things back home and I've never really believed in them either here.
12:How many people have you ever hooked up with?
Just my mai'sina'o. That's it.
13:What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Again, never had a previous one.
14:What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Well back home, only when one is ready. Here, the media pushes it on all kids I swear!
But seeing as we're Asexuals towards everyone else and don't care about sex, we can't exactly answer.
15:Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
Yes and no I suppose. Maturity levels are a huge factor. You can be thirty and still act like a child or
you can be eighteen and act like someone middle-aged.
16:Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
Nope. Never have in any of my previous human lives nor back home. Even with someone's mai'sina, it still takes time
to learn to love another.
17:Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
*shrugs* For some yes. For me, no.
18:What do you consider a deal breaker?
Someone who is very close-minded.
19:How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
Whenever one feels that it's no longer going anywhere?
20:Are you currently in a relationship?
With my mai'sina'o, yes.
To others that don't know about them, no.
21:Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
I think so depending on how the relationship ended. For some, yes. Others, no.
22:Do you think people should date their friends?
If they feel they can make it work, go for it.
If not, no I guess not.
23:How many relationships have you had?
Only one with my mai'sina'o. But if you count all the past lives we've had, many.
But only with each other in each life.
24:Do you think love can last forever?
Seeing as our people tend to live forever back home and we're with our mai'sina for our whole lives, yes.
For here as humans, it's iffy. Some can make it last. Some can't.
25:Do you believe love can conquer all things?
I think so.
26:Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
Nope. If I loved them, I'm staying with them.
27:If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
I don't know. This life, I've always had my mai'sina'o with me. And in the past lives I've always had them.
So I'm not certain at times how some things work because of how things are back home.
28:Do you think long distance relationships can work?
Some can, some can't. Depends how it works out for the people.
29:What do you notice first about another person?
Their personality.
30:Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
Well I'm actually an Asexual (as are my mai'sina'o) towards everyone.
But we'd be panromantics towards each other. Towards others, we're Aromantics.
Back home, we'd still be pan but we are sexual there. Just pansexual demisexual.
31:Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
Seeing as I have lupus and everything (as do they with sharing a body together), they
know how hard it is suffering in pain. And the mental illness that comes with it can be depression
as well as others. And we still love each other.
32:Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
Nope.
33:Do you want to get married one day?
Technically I'm married to them already back home (and here though no one knows besides
those that know about them).
34:What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
Nope. We know that that is the worst idea ever. It always ends in disaster.
35:Could you be in a relationship without sex?
Seeing as we're Asexual (in this life), yes.
36:Are you still a virgin?
Yes we still are (from this life).
(Previous lives, no.)
37:What's more important: Looks or personality?
Personality always.
38:Do you enjoy love films?
Depends. We're picky.
39:Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
They've gotten me moon flowers. They know I love those more than anything.
40:Have you ever had a valentine?
Just my mai'sina'o.
41:What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
Sitting and watching a movie together.
42:Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
We had to read it in high school for class. It's not one of our favorite books though.
43:What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
Both are important because my mai'sina'o are friends as well as my mai'sina'o.
They are all my family and family always are important.
44:Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
Not really. Towards others anyways. To my mai'sina'o, I suppose maybe a little.
45:Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
Nope.
46:Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
Nope. But I friendzone everyone that tries to ask me on a date since I'm not interested
in them. I'm only interested in my mai'sina'o.
47:Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
Don't have one. Don't pay attention.
48:What's your favorite love song?
Um...Shania Twain's "From This Moment" is one. Don't know about any more at the moment.
49:Have you ever broken someone's heart?
Probably. But not my mai'sina'o.
50:If you're single, why do you think you are?
Towards others (who don't know about my mai'sina'o), I'm an Aromantic Asexual. That's why.
51:Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
I don't need money to make me happy. I just need the person to accept me as me and I will accept them as their selves.
Money should never be involved in what and whom to love.
52:Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
Strangely sometimes I am despite being an Asexual (towards others).
53:Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
Nope. Because of the Aromantic Asexual thing, I don't care. I'm happy being single.
(Given no one knows about my mai'sina'o.)
54:How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on Facebook)?
Not really important in my mind. But that's just me.
55:Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
None of those.
56:Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
Nope. That's the worst thing to ever think about in my opinion.
57:Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
Silly? Yeah I suppose. It's not worth dying over someone who broke your heart.
58:Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
Eh. Between my mai'sina'o and I, we're pretty even with each other. Neither of us are overly dominant or submissive.
59:Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
Nope.
60:What's your opinion on open relationships?
Well technically I having two mai'sina'o would be considered an 'open relationship'. But back home
it's not uncommon for us to have two mai'sina. A little rare but not uncommon. Having one with four mai'sina, more rare though.
61:Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
Both since they are my family.
62:How do you define "cheating"?
Um...well that depends on the type of person: whether they are Sexual or Asexual.
Sexuals, I guess seeing someone else and possibly sleeping with them.
Asexuals, um...well....I don't know how that works since we don't have sex with others.
63:Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
I don't know. I've never watched any. Don't want to either.
64:Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
Yep.
65:Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
Towards my mai'sina'o, yes.
And a very few select friends. Everyone else, nope.
Only on my mai'sina'o (my lifemates).
Towards anyone else, no.
2:Have you ever been deeply in love?
With my mai'sina'o and only my mai'sina.
3:Longest relationship you've ever been in?
With my mai'sina'o for thousands of years being reincarnated into new human lives over and over again. But back home I've been with them for a couple of years though I grew up with them in the Capital where we were taught our duties as a priestess (me), Seer (Kieran/Azarian) and a Warrior/Protector (Cole/Kaias).
4:Have you ever changed for someone?
Nope. I've never needed to change for them. They love me for me.
5:How is your relationship with your ex?
Never had an ex since they are my first and only mai'sina'o.
6:Have you ever been cheated on?
Nope. They are devoted to me and I am to them.
7:Have you ever cheated?
Nope. Again, I am solely devoted to them.
8:Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
Nope. I would only date my mai'sina'o.
9:What's the most important part of a relationship?
Being able to be oneself around my mai'sina'o and they accepting me for me and I accepting them for them.
Being trustworthy and honest and loyal as well.
10:Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
I only do a serious relationship with my mai'sina'o.
11:When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
Nope. We don't have such things back home and I've never really believed in them either here.
12:How many people have you ever hooked up with?
Just my mai'sina'o. That's it.
13:What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Again, never had a previous one.
14:What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Well back home, only when one is ready. Here, the media pushes it on all kids I swear!
But seeing as we're Asexuals towards everyone else and don't care about sex, we can't exactly answer.
15:Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
Yes and no I suppose. Maturity levels are a huge factor. You can be thirty and still act like a child or
you can be eighteen and act like someone middle-aged.
16:Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
Nope. Never have in any of my previous human lives nor back home. Even with someone's mai'sina, it still takes time
to learn to love another.
17:Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
*shrugs* For some yes. For me, no.
18:What do you consider a deal breaker?
Someone who is very close-minded.
19:How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
Whenever one feels that it's no longer going anywhere?
20:Are you currently in a relationship?
With my mai'sina'o, yes.
To others that don't know about them, no.
21:Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
I think so depending on how the relationship ended. For some, yes. Others, no.
22:Do you think people should date their friends?
If they feel they can make it work, go for it.
If not, no I guess not.
23:How many relationships have you had?
Only one with my mai'sina'o. But if you count all the past lives we've had, many.
But only with each other in each life.
24:Do you think love can last forever?
Seeing as our people tend to live forever back home and we're with our mai'sina for our whole lives, yes.
For here as humans, it's iffy. Some can make it last. Some can't.
25:Do you believe love can conquer all things?
I think so.
26:Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
Nope. If I loved them, I'm staying with them.
27:If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
I don't know. This life, I've always had my mai'sina'o with me. And in the past lives I've always had them.
So I'm not certain at times how some things work because of how things are back home.
28:Do you think long distance relationships can work?
Some can, some can't. Depends how it works out for the people.
29:What do you notice first about another person?
Their personality.
30:Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
Well I'm actually an Asexual (as are my mai'sina'o) towards everyone.
But we'd be panromantics towards each other. Towards others, we're Aromantics.
Back home, we'd still be pan but we are sexual there. Just pansexual demisexual.
31:Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
Seeing as I have lupus and everything (as do they with sharing a body together), they
know how hard it is suffering in pain. And the mental illness that comes with it can be depression
as well as others. And we still love each other.
32:Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
Nope.
33:Do you want to get married one day?
Technically I'm married to them already back home (and here though no one knows besides
those that know about them).
34:What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
Nope. We know that that is the worst idea ever. It always ends in disaster.
35:Could you be in a relationship without sex?
Seeing as we're Asexual (in this life), yes.
36:Are you still a virgin?
Yes we still are (from this life).
(Previous lives, no.)
37:What's more important: Looks or personality?
Personality always.
38:Do you enjoy love films?
Depends. We're picky.
39:Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
They've gotten me moon flowers. They know I love those more than anything.
40:Have you ever had a valentine?
Just my mai'sina'o.
41:What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
Sitting and watching a movie together.
42:Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
We had to read it in high school for class. It's not one of our favorite books though.
43:What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
Both are important because my mai'sina'o are friends as well as my mai'sina'o.
They are all my family and family always are important.
44:Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
Not really. Towards others anyways. To my mai'sina'o, I suppose maybe a little.
45:Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
Nope.
46:Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
Nope. But I friendzone everyone that tries to ask me on a date since I'm not interested
in them. I'm only interested in my mai'sina'o.
47:Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
Don't have one. Don't pay attention.
48:What's your favorite love song?
Um...Shania Twain's "From This Moment" is one. Don't know about any more at the moment.
49:Have you ever broken someone's heart?
Probably. But not my mai'sina'o.
50:If you're single, why do you think you are?
Towards others (who don't know about my mai'sina'o), I'm an Aromantic Asexual. That's why.
51:Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
I don't need money to make me happy. I just need the person to accept me as me and I will accept them as their selves.
Money should never be involved in what and whom to love.
52:Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
Strangely sometimes I am despite being an Asexual (towards others).
53:Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
Nope. Because of the Aromantic Asexual thing, I don't care. I'm happy being single.
(Given no one knows about my mai'sina'o.)
54:How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on Facebook)?
Not really important in my mind. But that's just me.
55:Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
None of those.
56:Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
Nope. That's the worst thing to ever think about in my opinion.
57:Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
Silly? Yeah I suppose. It's not worth dying over someone who broke your heart.
58:Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
Eh. Between my mai'sina'o and I, we're pretty even with each other. Neither of us are overly dominant or submissive.
59:Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
Nope.
60:What's your opinion on open relationships?
Well technically I having two mai'sina'o would be considered an 'open relationship'. But back home
it's not uncommon for us to have two mai'sina. A little rare but not uncommon. Having one with four mai'sina, more rare though.
61:Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
Both since they are my family.
62:How do you define "cheating"?
Um...well that depends on the type of person: whether they are Sexual or Asexual.
Sexuals, I guess seeing someone else and possibly sleeping with them.
Asexuals, um...well....I don't know how that works since we don't have sex with others.
63:Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
I don't know. I've never watched any. Don't want to either.
64:Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
Yep.
65:Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
Towards my mai'sina'o, yes.
And a very few select friends. Everyone else, nope.