Relationship Meme....thing. (Yeah, idle pup, heh)
12 years ago
General
1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
Yup yup!
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
I felt like I have
3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
5 years
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
I probably have whether I realized it or not.
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
(2 ex's) - First, still friends, Second, still have close to each other.
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
Not to my knowledge
7: Have you ever cheated?
Nope, I had permission
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
Known for cheating? Probably not.
9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
Mutual understanding and communication (and obviously acceptance of each other's habits and faults). Also...having the same long-term goal for settling down is helpful.
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
At this point, I think I want to give relationships a break until I know I want to settle down. But I would still feel very close and connected with those I were with.
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
The only time I think a 'break' is acceptable is when you need to cool off before mutually coming to the conclusion that you two aren't working out. You should try to not end your relationship while angry or over-emotional.
12: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Rushing into my first one.
13: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Legal age. That's it....people need to make their own mistakes, but as long as they are legally able to, then it's on them.
14: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
Oh you bet! I've seen some very lively and older people and some very ancient boring young people.
15: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
If a crush counts, then yes....but for the most part, not really.
16: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
Yes I very much do. I wouldn't recommend it until you actually meet though.
17: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Wow, okay where to start. Long-distance, specific kinks, different goals on where to settle, relationship standards, work ethic, responsibility, emotional stability... There are more I'm sure but this was just off the top of my head. Yeah....I'm being quite the picky aroo.
18: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
When we begin to drift apart. We discuss why we are drifting apart and if it can be fixed (realistically) and if not, we should start discussing the possibility of separating. It sucks, but we'd both be happier in the long run.
19: Are you currently in a relationship?
Nope, currently a single pup (by choice)
20: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
Definitely can. Depends on how they separated and were towards each other during those times.
21: Do you think people should date their friends
Why not? If you are both understanding of the possible outcomes there's no reason you shouldn't. A. You end up together and live happy forever. B. You find out you are better friends than a couple. C. You get together break up....hopefully peacefully so you can remain friends or else you now have someone you don't want to be around. Is it worth losing a friend? Make your decision carefully.
22: How many relationships have you had?
2 relationships. First was 2 years, second was 5 years.
23: Do you think love can last forever?
Yes
24: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
No....sometimes it's the cause of things.
25: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
No....and furthermore I'd tell my partner about it and ask them why they might think this and then I'd make all of them talk.
26: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
There's no need to rush into anything...just enjoy being happy on your own until you are ready. How do you know when you're ready? Try to be self-sufficient first.
27: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
Yes, they can work. I don't wish to be in one though. If I'm in a relationship, I want to spend time WITH my partner at home.
28: What do you notice first about another person?
Their reactions to how I act, their personality, their comfort level in any given situation.
29: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
I am gay....it's just easier to say.
30: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
Only if they let it rule their life and/or affect the way they lived. Nobody should use it as an excuse.
31: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
Emotionally abusive, yes.
32: Do you want to get married one day?
I don't really believe in marriage as something a couple in love should do. I am perfectly happy being with my partner without any ceremony. However, for the benefit of taxes, insurance, hospital visits and other benefits that come with being married, that's the only reason I see to be married. I do not need a piece of paper to validate my love. Admittedly a (very) tiny part of me thinks it's romantic.
33: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
Nope nope...again if I'm going to mark my body, it's for me.
34: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
Personally....no. I am big enough to admit that for me it is a big part of a relationship for me. Certainly not the most important part, but as a puppy, I find it a HUGE way for us to share a bonding emotional and physical link. Sex is majority mental for me anyway.
35: Are you still a virgin?
Nope nope
36: What's more important: Looks or personality?
Personality for sure.
37: Do you enjoy love films?
I prefer romantic comedies, but overall, sure I can enjoy them.
38: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
Actually, no I haven't.
39: Have you ever had a valentine?
I'm pretty sure I have.
40: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
I don't actually date...but if I did...nah, you guys have to figure it out. I'm not gonna make it easy for you. (Disclaimer - I don't really believe in dating because I don't want to go on an 'outing' with someone who isn't being themselves. People go on dates to impress the people they are with. With me, be yourself, how you would be at home on a normal day. That's the best way to see how we click on a normal basis.)
41: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
Yes I have....I sort of had to.
42: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
Neither are more important than the other. I would love my partner and I love my friends. If my partner wanted me to become a hermit and devote every moment of my day to them, we wouldn't work. I need to interact with friends as well.
43: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
I think deep down I am...I honestly just try not to show it. I don't wanna lead people on.
44: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
Again, I don't date....but if I did, oh yes!
45: Have you ever been "friend-zoned"?
*headtilts* Does this mean being told "We'd be better friends" ? If so, I suppose I have.
46: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
Nobody is famous to me. We've all been on tv at one point....where are my millions?
47: What's your favorite love song?
Utada Hikaru - First Love....also love Whitney Houston's - I Will Always Love You
48: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
More than once, yes.
49: If you're single, why do you think you are?
Because I choose to be. There are a few people interested, but I have declined. Not because they are the wrong person or bad....I just WANT to be single. They're still being excellent friends with me ^^
50: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy/girl?
Again....this depends on their work ethic. A rich guy can lose his money in an instant. The poor guy might be a hard worker and overall be safer to be around. Douchebag or not....I am confident enough to take them down a notch if I need to.
51: Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/ relationships?
"Am I good at it?" That's not for me to decide... Some friends seem to think I give them decent advice mainly because I do NOT tell them what to do, I just point them in a direction.
52: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
Nah, I'm happy my friends are happy.
53: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
How important? Nah...not extremely, but I would still do it.
54: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
Clingy? Nope. Overly Attached? Nope. Jealous? Hmm....I can't exactly say no to this, but I am not a dangerous amount of jealous. Just give the pup some reassurances and everything is golden :P
55: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
According to one person who no longer wishes to be friends, yes I have. I was a victim of circumstance to be honest.
56: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
No, I think it's STUPID. My opinion on suicide is unpopular. I will not give people the sympathy they seek. I may seem heartless and all, but aroo...they need to learn to get over it.
57: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
Dude, I am SUCH the submissive puppy. *wag wag wags* I am very happy to please ^^
58: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
Admittedly yes....but I always made it up to em. Pup shows his love throughout the whole year so missing a day isn't the end of the world.
59: What's your opinion on open relationships?
I'm all for it. I don't find it as an excuse to go hook up with anyone you want, but to share yerself and partner with people you consider very good friends.
60: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
My mom is more important to me than everyone...when she is gone, my world will be destroyed for a good while. However apart from her, I tend to hold everyone else equal.
61: How do you define "cheating"?
Any sexual act without permission from your partner. If you have an open-ended relationship, it's good to know if that person you plan to be with is on your list of "people it's okay to be naughty with without asking".
62: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
Nah, it's fine....maybe you watch it together? Maybe you MAKE it together? ^^
63: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
Oh yeah....SO overrated. I believe in showing love every day throughout the year as if it's the last day you have with that person. I don't need a day to remind me.
64: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
If you've met me, you very likely know the answer to this question. *wag wag wags*
If you guys have any further questions or want me to go into more
detail about any of the above, feel fee to comment and ask (or
send a private message if yer shy) and I'll get back to you if it's
appropriate. ^^ Thanks fer reading! I know I'm a weird silly pup
sometimes.
Yup yup!
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
I felt like I have
3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
5 years
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
I probably have whether I realized it or not.
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
(2 ex's) - First, still friends, Second, still have close to each other.
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
Not to my knowledge
7: Have you ever cheated?
Nope, I had permission
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
Known for cheating? Probably not.
9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
Mutual understanding and communication (and obviously acceptance of each other's habits and faults). Also...having the same long-term goal for settling down is helpful.
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
At this point, I think I want to give relationships a break until I know I want to settle down. But I would still feel very close and connected with those I were with.
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
The only time I think a 'break' is acceptable is when you need to cool off before mutually coming to the conclusion that you two aren't working out. You should try to not end your relationship while angry or over-emotional.
12: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Rushing into my first one.
13: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Legal age. That's it....people need to make their own mistakes, but as long as they are legally able to, then it's on them.
14: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
Oh you bet! I've seen some very lively and older people and some very ancient boring young people.
15: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
If a crush counts, then yes....but for the most part, not really.
16: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
Yes I very much do. I wouldn't recommend it until you actually meet though.
17: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Wow, okay where to start. Long-distance, specific kinks, different goals on where to settle, relationship standards, work ethic, responsibility, emotional stability... There are more I'm sure but this was just off the top of my head. Yeah....I'm being quite the picky aroo.
18: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
When we begin to drift apart. We discuss why we are drifting apart and if it can be fixed (realistically) and if not, we should start discussing the possibility of separating. It sucks, but we'd both be happier in the long run.
19: Are you currently in a relationship?
Nope, currently a single pup (by choice)
20: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
Definitely can. Depends on how they separated and were towards each other during those times.
21: Do you think people should date their friends
Why not? If you are both understanding of the possible outcomes there's no reason you shouldn't. A. You end up together and live happy forever. B. You find out you are better friends than a couple. C. You get together break up....hopefully peacefully so you can remain friends or else you now have someone you don't want to be around. Is it worth losing a friend? Make your decision carefully.
22: How many relationships have you had?
2 relationships. First was 2 years, second was 5 years.
23: Do you think love can last forever?
Yes
24: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
No....sometimes it's the cause of things.
25: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
No....and furthermore I'd tell my partner about it and ask them why they might think this and then I'd make all of them talk.
26: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
There's no need to rush into anything...just enjoy being happy on your own until you are ready. How do you know when you're ready? Try to be self-sufficient first.
27: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
Yes, they can work. I don't wish to be in one though. If I'm in a relationship, I want to spend time WITH my partner at home.
28: What do you notice first about another person?
Their reactions to how I act, their personality, their comfort level in any given situation.
29: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
I am gay....it's just easier to say.
30: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
Only if they let it rule their life and/or affect the way they lived. Nobody should use it as an excuse.
31: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
Emotionally abusive, yes.
32: Do you want to get married one day?
I don't really believe in marriage as something a couple in love should do. I am perfectly happy being with my partner without any ceremony. However, for the benefit of taxes, insurance, hospital visits and other benefits that come with being married, that's the only reason I see to be married. I do not need a piece of paper to validate my love. Admittedly a (very) tiny part of me thinks it's romantic.
33: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
Nope nope...again if I'm going to mark my body, it's for me.
34: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
Personally....no. I am big enough to admit that for me it is a big part of a relationship for me. Certainly not the most important part, but as a puppy, I find it a HUGE way for us to share a bonding emotional and physical link. Sex is majority mental for me anyway.
35: Are you still a virgin?
Nope nope
36: What's more important: Looks or personality?
Personality for sure.
37: Do you enjoy love films?
I prefer romantic comedies, but overall, sure I can enjoy them.
38: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
Actually, no I haven't.
39: Have you ever had a valentine?
I'm pretty sure I have.
40: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
I don't actually date...but if I did...nah, you guys have to figure it out. I'm not gonna make it easy for you. (Disclaimer - I don't really believe in dating because I don't want to go on an 'outing' with someone who isn't being themselves. People go on dates to impress the people they are with. With me, be yourself, how you would be at home on a normal day. That's the best way to see how we click on a normal basis.)
41: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
Yes I have....I sort of had to.
42: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
Neither are more important than the other. I would love my partner and I love my friends. If my partner wanted me to become a hermit and devote every moment of my day to them, we wouldn't work. I need to interact with friends as well.
43: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
I think deep down I am...I honestly just try not to show it. I don't wanna lead people on.
44: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
Again, I don't date....but if I did, oh yes!
45: Have you ever been "friend-zoned"?
*headtilts* Does this mean being told "We'd be better friends" ? If so, I suppose I have.
46: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
Nobody is famous to me. We've all been on tv at one point....where are my millions?
47: What's your favorite love song?
Utada Hikaru - First Love....also love Whitney Houston's - I Will Always Love You
48: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
More than once, yes.
49: If you're single, why do you think you are?
Because I choose to be. There are a few people interested, but I have declined. Not because they are the wrong person or bad....I just WANT to be single. They're still being excellent friends with me ^^
50: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy/girl?
Again....this depends on their work ethic. A rich guy can lose his money in an instant. The poor guy might be a hard worker and overall be safer to be around. Douchebag or not....I am confident enough to take them down a notch if I need to.
51: Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/ relationships?
"Am I good at it?" That's not for me to decide... Some friends seem to think I give them decent advice mainly because I do NOT tell them what to do, I just point them in a direction.
52: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
Nah, I'm happy my friends are happy.
53: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
How important? Nah...not extremely, but I would still do it.
54: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
Clingy? Nope. Overly Attached? Nope. Jealous? Hmm....I can't exactly say no to this, but I am not a dangerous amount of jealous. Just give the pup some reassurances and everything is golden :P
55: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
According to one person who no longer wishes to be friends, yes I have. I was a victim of circumstance to be honest.
56: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
No, I think it's STUPID. My opinion on suicide is unpopular. I will not give people the sympathy they seek. I may seem heartless and all, but aroo...they need to learn to get over it.
57: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
Dude, I am SUCH the submissive puppy. *wag wag wags* I am very happy to please ^^
58: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
Admittedly yes....but I always made it up to em. Pup shows his love throughout the whole year so missing a day isn't the end of the world.
59: What's your opinion on open relationships?
I'm all for it. I don't find it as an excuse to go hook up with anyone you want, but to share yerself and partner with people you consider very good friends.
60: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
My mom is more important to me than everyone...when she is gone, my world will be destroyed for a good while. However apart from her, I tend to hold everyone else equal.
61: How do you define "cheating"?
Any sexual act without permission from your partner. If you have an open-ended relationship, it's good to know if that person you plan to be with is on your list of "people it's okay to be naughty with without asking".
62: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
Nah, it's fine....maybe you watch it together? Maybe you MAKE it together? ^^
63: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
Oh yeah....SO overrated. I believe in showing love every day throughout the year as if it's the last day you have with that person. I don't need a day to remind me.
64: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
If you've met me, you very likely know the answer to this question. *wag wag wags*
If you guys have any further questions or want me to go into more
detail about any of the above, feel fee to comment and ask (or
send a private message if yer shy) and I'll get back to you if it's
appropriate. ^^ Thanks fer reading! I know I'm a weird silly pup
sometimes.
Romani_Ete
~romaniete
I hate valentines so much....
Bladehorse
~bladehorse
mmms rule 64 :) Yayyy! I hope you find someone that matches your needs perfectly pup! You certainly deserve it!
AydenWolf08
!aydenwolf08
*snugs* I like your views on a lot of these, pup
RetroKat
~retrokat
if I did this survey every answer would be "no" "Nothing" or "Never" ....
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