so, recently I tried to hit on a guy (my first attemp ever to hit on a random guy), a young freaking tall chubby guy X3 I tried to act charming and interested in him; I truly was interested in him from the start.
it was after a firework show. some ashes fell over us and we ended up together under a tree watching the sky. we laughed when it ended and he told me that some ashes fell on his eyes and and from then we started to talk about other things like music and games and computers. then he had to go to the opposite direction I had to, but he told me that he would take some other bus to the train terminal.
at some point I told some joke about stopping the traffic by throwing someone in the middle of the street and he suddenly grabbed me and lifted me imitating that joke, and we laughed a bit more until my bus came.
before getting on the bus he tried to kiss me good bye on the cheek (in Argentina is common to kiss someone as a greet for hello or good bye, even if they are people that just met each other), but I'm not the kind of person who does that, so I put my hand in front of him to shakes his. it all ended up as an awkward good bye, we both threw our hands in the are and yelled "ASDFDSASAAA!!! XD". that end was pretty funny though.
finally, my doubts now come when I try to think what guys think is atractive (when we talk about gay guys.... nerdy gay guys, specifically) and if I'm able to be atractive for anyone.
what do YOU think is atractive?
how is your atttitude when you try to hit on a guy? (doesn't matter if you know for sure that he's gay. just some cute guy).
do you have your own tactic?
what do you not like when someone tries to make a move on you?
as for me, I only try to be as I am. a nice guy, gentle, a bit weird, polite.
please, let me know what do you think nwn