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Say It To My Face
12 years ago
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To any and all who want to say something to me but are too cowardice, then I hope you read this or come across it.
If I do something that bothers you, no matter how small, tell me directly.
If I don't know something bothered you, I sure as hell will not be able to apologize or guarantee that it will not happen again if it is not obvious that it bothered you. If nothing is said, I am going to assume it is okay to do. If nothing is said, do not have the ignorant and false belief that it won't happen again/will change next time.
Do have the decency, respect, and THE BALLS to tell it to me either directly or e-mail, or whatever you, YOURSELF in some way.
I am sick of hearing from people "so and so wanted me to tell you/they were bothered by...". Do NOT involve a third party/messenger because then it is bringing them into the problem, and many friendships get ruined that way.
The excuse of you don't know how to contact me, will not fly. If you are able to tell someone who does know me, and to my friends who read this and this happens, please reply in a similar manner, "This is between you guys so please do not involve me. If you have something to say, I can give you his FA and IMs and you can talk it out with him."
It is pathetic and immature when "adults" have the "tell mommy and daddy" mentality while they snicker behind a corner, thinking they are safe from any repercussions.
If you do not tell me directly, then WHY should I give a flying fuck or respect you if you don't respect me enough to tell me what is wrong? Answer: I just will not.
If reasoning is legit, then I will give a sincere apology and not repeat the offense.
If I do something that bothers you, no matter how small, tell me directly.
If I don't know something bothered you, I sure as hell will not be able to apologize or guarantee that it will not happen again if it is not obvious that it bothered you. If nothing is said, I am going to assume it is okay to do. If nothing is said, do not have the ignorant and false belief that it won't happen again/will change next time.
Do have the decency, respect, and THE BALLS to tell it to me either directly or e-mail, or whatever you, YOURSELF in some way.
I am sick of hearing from people "so and so wanted me to tell you/they were bothered by...". Do NOT involve a third party/messenger because then it is bringing them into the problem, and many friendships get ruined that way.
The excuse of you don't know how to contact me, will not fly. If you are able to tell someone who does know me, and to my friends who read this and this happens, please reply in a similar manner, "This is between you guys so please do not involve me. If you have something to say, I can give you his FA and IMs and you can talk it out with him."
It is pathetic and immature when "adults" have the "tell mommy and daddy" mentality while they snicker behind a corner, thinking they are safe from any repercussions.
If you do not tell me directly, then WHY should I give a flying fuck or respect you if you don't respect me enough to tell me what is wrong? Answer: I just will not.
If reasoning is legit, then I will give a sincere apology and not repeat the offense.
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