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As Valentine's Day ends I thought I'd have a go of this meme.

1: Do you have a crush at the moment?

Yes! Mah boyfriend

2: Have you ever been deeply in love?

Yes! I am utterly besotted with Si. I have thought I was in love before but being with Si has shown me what true love is. :D

3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?

Almost 10 years of not very niceness.

4: Have you ever changed for someone?

I tried for a very long time and then realised that, if they wanted to change my personality, they weren't in love with me anyway.

5: How is your relationship with your ex?

That particular ex... The only reason he isn't in jail is because I was too traumatised to pursue legal proceedings. But I am way better now.

6: Have you ever been cheated on?

Yes.

7: Have you ever cheated?

Nope. Not unless it counts when you have broken up with someone but they just refuse the breakup.

8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?

No. People don't change. If they are impulsive and can't maintain relationships then they'll cheat on you too.

9: What's the most important part of a relationship?

Trust. You have to be able to trust someone to really be yourself around them.

10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?

Serious relationships. Although sex with friends when you're single is fun too.

11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?

No, that's a retarded idea.

12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?

Men = 8

Women = 23

13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?

Not punching him in the face and telling him to get out of my house.

14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?

If you're a kid you're not ready. Daft question.

15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?

I think age can be a sexy number... I'm 33 and Si is 23.

16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?

No. I believe in lust at first sight.

17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?

Nope. Too many people lie, exaggerate or bend the truth.

18: What do you consider a deal breaker?

Infidelity.

19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?

Odd question. I guess if you aren't happy.

20: Are you currently in a relationship?

Ooooooh yes!

21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?

Yes but it's often uncomfortable. Usually someone didn't want to end the relationship.

22: Do you think people should date their friends?

Most of my partners were my friends first.

23: How many relationships have you had?

Not counting silly high school stuff... 6

24: Do you think love can last forever?

It can last as long as you take care of it.

25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?

Yes but it shouldn't be a crutch and you should always appreciate the support you get.

26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?

Ha! Like my parents are a good example of relationshipness.

27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?

Judge people by their actions and not their words. Anyone can say "I love you". Look at how they treat their family and friends for an example of how you will end up being treated.

28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?

It depends on the individual situation and if there is a mutual goal of being together.

29: What do you notice first about another person?

Notice first or am attracted to first? Unless you meet online then you will always notice their appearance first but what matters most to me is that we click.

30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?

Bi but for all intents and purposes straight now.

31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?

Nope. I'd be a raving hypocrite if it did.

32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

Yes.

33: Do you want to get married one day?

Absolutely.

34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?

I think it's tempting fate.

35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?

I'm hypersexual so NO. lol

36: Are you still a virgin?

Good god no.

37: What's more important: Looks or personality?

Personality. It doesn't matter how photogenic you are if you aren't a nice person.

38: Do you enjoy love films?

I like horrors, thrillers and films where stuff blows up... a lot. But I do adore the 80's romantic fantasies.

39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?

Both. :D

40: Have you ever had a valentine?

Yush.

41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?

Walking through the lakes in winter, eating dinner in front of a roaring fire, champagne and lots of nekkid time.

42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?

Yes, it's ridiculous.

43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?

He is my best friend. My friends are super important too me although I tend to hide when my crazy gets on top of me.

44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?

Extremely.

45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?

Nope. Apart from Si obviously.

46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?

I do not understand what this is.

47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?

Stephenson Brunel = Greatest bromance of all time!

Also, Queen Victoria and Albert.

48: What's your favorite love song?

We're in this together now.

49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?

Yes.

50: If you're single, why do you think you are?

I'm not.

51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy/girl?

I like the two examples. I don't care about money if they're a dick. I had a multi-millionaire hit on me who was very nice but there was no chemistry and I wasn't tempted.

52: Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/ relationships?

I can only give the same advice as I would give myself. Anyone can say they are a "nice person" but look at what they do, how they do it and the way they treat others in their lives.

53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?

Nope, it's cute.

54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?

Not very. Unless there are people who wont listen when you tell them you're not single.

55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?

Nope but I do get a bit paranoid a few days before that time of the month. But I can tell it's happening so I don't let it control me.

56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?

Nope, I ended them.

57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?

I think it's a very selfish thing to do.

58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?

Switch. Used to be fully sub but got more Domme as I aged. :P

59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?

I'm more likely to forget my own.

60: What's your opinion on open relationships?

Not for me but each to their own.

61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?

He is family. And he's the man I want to build a bigger family with.

62: How do you define "cheating"?

Behaving in an inappropriately intimate way with someone who isn't my partner.

63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?

Not really. It's generally a good idea to be careful if your partner has low self-esteem though.

64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?

It is exactly what you make it.

65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?

Hugs are my currency and cuddles make me crazy happy.


P.S. I adore you