TRIUMPH
12 years ago
General
So, I met this guy near the end of the summer and I became "friends" with him. I say "friends" because he was a really nice guy at first. We added each other on FB and talked about video games. Then the weirdness happened.
This guy starts flirting hard with me even though I tell him that I'm not looking for a relationship and that flirting makes me highly uncomfortable. He just says "Sorry, I'm just lonely. I won't do it again." So a couple months ago he starts talking and flirting with me again. If he talked normally I would talk back but if he flirted I'd just ignore him because of course I'm too fucking nice to delete someone.
Like, you guys don't understand. If someone flirts with me it's either A.) I'm totally oblivious and have no idea or B.) I get highly offended by it. I have a coworker that is completely shocked that I'm offended by it and she's like "I'd feel really good if someone flirted with me." I'm not sure why but every time someone does I just feel like telling them to fuck off and get away from me.
Anyway, back to what I was saying. So after completely ignoring the last 3 or so messages he sent me he sent me one this morning that says, and I quote: should i just delete u?
YES, DO IT. DO IT NOW. LIKE, RIGHT NOW.
/end pointless excited rant
.:edit:.
So he asked why I don't talk to him anymore and I explained that I'm not looking for a relationship and flirting makes me uncomfortable. He says "Why? am I not good enough for you?"
Yep, he's deleted.
This guy starts flirting hard with me even though I tell him that I'm not looking for a relationship and that flirting makes me highly uncomfortable. He just says "Sorry, I'm just lonely. I won't do it again." So a couple months ago he starts talking and flirting with me again. If he talked normally I would talk back but if he flirted I'd just ignore him because of course I'm too fucking nice to delete someone.
Like, you guys don't understand. If someone flirts with me it's either A.) I'm totally oblivious and have no idea or B.) I get highly offended by it. I have a coworker that is completely shocked that I'm offended by it and she's like "I'd feel really good if someone flirted with me." I'm not sure why but every time someone does I just feel like telling them to fuck off and get away from me.
Anyway, back to what I was saying. So after completely ignoring the last 3 or so messages he sent me he sent me one this morning that says, and I quote: should i just delete u?
YES, DO IT. DO IT NOW. LIKE, RIGHT NOW.
/end pointless excited rant
.:edit:.
So he asked why I don't talk to him anymore and I explained that I'm not looking for a relationship and flirting makes me uncomfortable. He says "Why? am I not good enough for you?"
Yep, he's deleted.
SHADOWDRAGON112
~shadowdragon112
GOOD! lol, if he doesn't respect your boundaries now, imagine what would happen later on....
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