I know a lot of furs tend to be in open relationships where they can play around with others. Mine is that way.

did you ever felt the need more to give one or a few of the ppl you are in open relationships with? like make morning breakfast, call/text them? or is it completely no strings attached?

Mostly no strings attached

See, im single and a virgin lol.(proud of it) But from a personal belief point of view i feel like if i do get to know a person i would like to know u for a while before we start fucking around. And if we do end up having intercourse i would like to be able to stay with them as long as i can.

hehe well olf fashion way last this long for a reason, when I first introduced into the fandom I experienced the taste of no string attached so I have been enjoying it ever since, so far nothing too bad had happen to me and maybe why I am still doing it, but I honestly do get lonely these days and wondering if I have done it wrong, and at the same time keep wondering how other people do it their ways

When I was married I was in an open relationship. Since then we have separated. I have been looking but there has been no one to help me out lately. I usually play with my XL Vergil 1-3 times a week and take care of myself.

haha toy does help take care the physical needs for sure, when I was younger I had lots of fun with my toys but by then I cared too much for myself so end up being kind sad "having" to play with toys rather than a person who cares for me. Right now although the feelings do hit me from time to time but I don't care as much like I used to, and I have some friends who can share both intimate moments, and joyful "sit around snuggle and just talk" with me, it helped a lot :)

i'm single, occasions come and go. I rarely do anything with people i don't know decently first. ( i don't want it to, but it happens in the heat of the moment sometimes) . Cuddleing is just as nice to me as well.

sex always help you with a +100 points or a instant -100 points depend on people and situation, I guess when the time and the person is right it's always a plus unless both parties are shy and no one dares to initiate anything.

and yes cuddling is nice :)

I didn't really change what I do with others when I went from being single to being in an open relationship. I'm still a cuddlewhore who doesn't mind being naked with other guys, but I'm not just gonna go and hump them. About a year ago, before I got with my boyfriend, I ended up disappointing someone who invited me over when I refused to stuff his tailhole, even with a condom and such. It doesn't mean that I can't or won't have sex with someone else, but I'd have to really know and care about them.

This I used to hate but now trying to learn with respect, I have friends in the past who did the same to me, first saying they wanna play they wanna play and later saying I wanna play but I got boyfriend so can't play but please cuddle? It kind hurts to hear someone you admire to who has policy excluded you from being sexually available to, at that point being single and not in a relationship really hits the spot cause it's someone else's mate and you don't get to control what kind policy they build between them two.

So the people I am talking about, went from "no you can't have sex with anyone else" to each other, to "okay you can sleep with anyone you like", to "no I don't think that's a good idea, maybe no sex with any of your friends but you can get murry touchy but no showing bits", then to "ah fuck it, it's okay to play around as long as you sleep with me at the end of the day". It's very tiring for me because I couldn't keep up with which policy they go by each time I meet them. it's understandable that friends want to give things a try and find out what works and what doesn't, but eventually I dropped any desire and just be friends with them with no murry purry encouraged.

Not that I am going to play with you but if you are in an open relationship, it's good to let your close friends know what your policies are so they won't over expect some of the things they think they should be able to do with you :) If any of them intend to try the bother line with yo

Most people do take a while to figure things out, and it's confusing to everyone. Me? I'm plenty old enough, so I knew what kind of relationship I wanted before I actually got into one. I wasn't going to get attached to someone who was going to be all jealous of me touching someone else.

I've been in the awkward 3rd wheel position a few times. Though it had nothing to do with sex. Just me being single, hanging out with two guys who were in more of a closed relationship thing and feeling slightly odd.

okay so it was already something that had been worked out between you two than experimenting along the way :) For someone single like me I used to had impression that people who are mated would have sex day and night whenever they have the chance, but not everyone is like that XD (mainly lack of sex in the past made me imaging such fantasies, maybe not so much anymore)