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Im sick of furs who meet someone and then two days later there mates while im sitting here like, "great in a week i gotta read a journal about how they broke up and it wasn't meant to be"

your not in a relationship your dating the first thing that raises it's tail to you that's not how it works, i understand for the younger furs after al Pups will be pups but when people my age are doing it and the bitching about the sorrow it and blah blah grow the fuck up

sorry for the brutal honesty if this offends anyone but it it just that.... Honesty

i mean i dont even do relationships....i just have butt buddies

you'll get tired of it eventually, we all do

im not finding this offensive but this doesnt just happen to furs :P
it sounds like youre only including furs and that people that are not furs dont do this
i hope this doesnt come off rude
to be honest mostly, not all, but most teenagers are like that because they are young and they are learning and sometimes i guess sometimes growing up is slow to others because they havent learned much experience or they refuse to learn
(btw im not trying to start an argument if it sounds like one)

oh no, i understand that and perhaps im exposed to it more than normal, i just can't relate and it creates unneeded drama whether in the fandom or not i was just using the furry terms for shits and giggles

ah okay
yeh people who dont grow up tend to cause uneeded problems :/
and sometimes it causes stress to others depending on the situation

Oh man. There are a few people who know me quite well enough that I have issues with this just the same.

I, personally, get most bothered by feeling like the third wheel when hanging out around friends in relationships.

I will agree with one comment I saw above... Butt buddies does get old after a while. Granted, some people can definitely live on with that and be totally content for the rest of their sexual lives. I almost thought I'd be able to do that, but it hasn't taken long for a stronger feeling for something else to kick in. I'm a slave to my own yearning for romance. Something I didn't think I'd ever really be about a decade ago.

If you're lucky, you'll not suffer the same.